Missional Churches and Half-Hearted Welcomes

Over on my main Nonviolence.org blog I link to Punkmonkey's great post, refusing to get political, where he talks about why Christian pacifism is more than simply anti-war activism. Oh how I wish more Quakers knew this! I like Punkmonkey's blog a lot. He's also recently written about what it would mean to be a missional community of faith:

a missional community of faith is a living breathing transparent community of faith willing to get messy while reach out to, and bringing in, those outside the current community

Amen brother. The whole post is great. I love his critique of check-writing churches (perfectly applicable to most peace and social concerns committees I've seen). He also hits something I see a lot: Meetings that are "welcoming and excluding" in their cliquishness: "small groups of people who seem friendly, and welcoming but in actuality are not welcoming." Punkmonkey's not Quaker but Bebbeblog's Joe Guada is and I started reading his posts next. There I found a really interesting counterpoint: Can I be a (fill in the blank here) & be a Quaker, too?. Joe's post also talks about identity, praxis and superficial half-welcoming. He quotes a friend who's not joined Quakers:

Yes, I know that everyone has the Inner Light. Yes, I remember how uncomfortable it is to be looking for a group and to feel left out (though it's not as uncomfortable as feeling like you're part of the group, getting deeply involved and then finding out that you're a bad fit because people weren't telling you up front that you didn't fit).

Lots of great reading in all this!