Jul 25

Convergent Friends, a long definition

Robin M posts this week about “two Con­ver­gent Events”:http://robinmsf.blogspot.com/2007/07/two-convergent-events-in-california.html hap­pen­ing in Cal­i­for­nia in the next month or two. And she also tries out a sim­pli­fied def­i­n­i­tion of Con­ver­gent Friends:
bq. peo­ple who are engaged in the renewal move­ment within the Reli­gious Soci­ety of Friends, across all the branches of Friends.
It sounds good but what does it mean? Specif­i­cally: who isn’t for renewal, at least on a the­o­ret­i­cal level? There are lots of faith­ful, smart and lov­ing Friends out there advo­cat­ing renewal who don’t fit my def­i­n­i­tion of Con­ver­gent (which is fine, I don’t think the whole RSoF _should_ be Con­ver­gent, it’s a move­ment in the river, not a dam).
When Robin “coined the term”:http://robinmsf.blogspot.com/2006/01/robinopedia-convergent-friends.html at the start of 2006 it seemed to refer to gen­eral trends in the Reli­gious Soci­ety of Friends and the larger Chris­t­ian world, but it was also refer­ring to a spe­cific (online) com­mu­nity that had had a year or two of con­ver­sa­tion to shape itself and model trust and account­abil­ity. Most impor­tantly we each were going out of our way to engage with Friends from other Quaker tra­di­tions and were each called on our own cul­tural assump­tions.
The coined term implied an expe­ri­ence of sort. “Con­ver­gent” explic­itly ref­er­ences “Con­ser­v­a­tive Friends”:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conservative_Friends (“Con-”) and the “Emer­gent Church movement”:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emergent_church (“-ver­gent”). It seems to me like one needs to look at those two phe­nom­e­non and their rela­tion to one’s own under­stand­ing and expe­ri­ence of Quaker life and com­mu­nity before really under­stand­ing what all the fuss has been about. That’s hap­pen­ing lots of places and it is not sim­ply a blog phe­nom­e­non.
Nowa­days I’m notic­ing a lot of Friends declar­ing them­selves Con­ver­gent after read­ing a blog post or two or attend­ing a work­shop. It’s becom­ing the term _du jour_ for Friends who want to dif­fer­en­ti­ate them­selves from business-as-usual, Quakerism-as-usual. This fits Robin’s sim­pli­fied def­i­n­i­tion. But if that’s all it is and it becomes all-inclusive for inclusivity’s sake, then “Con­ver­gent” will drift away away from the roots of the con­ver­sa­tion that spawned it and turn into another buzz­word for “lib­eral Quaker.” This is start­ing to hap­pen.
The term “Con­ver­gent Friends” is being picked up by Friends out­side the dozen or two blogs that spawned it and mov­ing into the wild–that’s great, but also means it’s def­i­n­i­tion is becom­ing a mov­ing tar­get. Peo­ple are grab­bing onto it to sum up their dreams, visions and frus­tra­tions but we’re almost cer­tainly not mean­ing the same thing by it. “Con­ver­gent Friends” implies that we’ve all arrived some­where together. I’ve often won­dered whether we shouldn’t be talk­ing about “Con­verg­ing Friends,” a term that implies a par­al­lel set of move­ments and puts the rather impor­tant ele­phant square on the table: con­verg­ing toward what? What we mean by con­ver­gence depends on our start­ing point. My attempt at a label was the rather clunky “conservative-leaning lib­eral Friend”:http://www.quakerranter.org/conservative_liberal_quakers_and_not_becoming_a_leastcommondenominator_sentimental_faith.php, which is prob­a­bly what most of us in the lib­eral Quaker tra­di­tion are mean­ing by “Con­ver­gent.“
I started map­ping out a “lib­eral plan for Con­ver­gent Friends”:http://www.quakerranter.org/emergent_church_movement_the_younger_evangelicals_and_quaker_renewal.php a cou­ple of years before the term was coined and it still sum­ma­rizes many of my hopes and con­cerns. The only thing I might add now is a para­graph about how we’ll have to work both inside and out­side of nor­mal Quaker chan­nels to effect this change (Johan Mau­rer “recently wrote”:http://johanpdx.blogspot.com/2007/07/fum-retreat-what-did-we-accomplish.html an inter­est­ing post that included the won­der­ful descrip­tion of “the lovely sub­ver­sives who ignore struc­tures and com­mu­ni­cate on a purely per­sonal basis between the camps via blogs, vis­i­ta­tion, and other means” and com­pared us to SCUBA divers (“ScubaQuake​.org” any­one?).
Robin’s inclu­sive def­i­n­i­tion of “renewal” def­i­nitely speaks to some­thing. Infor­mal renewal net­works are spring­ing up all over North Amer­ica. Many branches of Friends are involved. There are themes I’m see­ing in lots of these places: a strong youth or next-generation focus; a reliance on the inter­net; a curios­ity about “other” Friends tra­di­tions; a desire to get back to roots in the sim­ple min­istry of Jesus. What­ever label or labels this new revival might take on is less impor­tant than the Spirit behind it.
But is every hope for renewal “Con­ver­gent”? I don’t think so. At the end of the day the path for us is nar­row and is given, not cho­sen. At the end of day–and begin­ning and middle–the work is to fol­low the Holy Spirit’s guid­ance in “real time.” Def­i­n­i­tions and care­fully selected words slough away as mere notions. The newest mes­sage is just the old­est mes­sage repack­aged. Let’s not get too caught up in our own hip verbage, lec­ture invi­ta­tions and glo­ri­ous atten­tion that we for­get that there there is one, even Christ Jesus who can speak to our con­di­tion, that He Him­self has come to teach, and that our mes­sage is to share the good news he’s given us. The Tempter is ready to dis­tract us, to puff us up so we think we are the mes­sage, that we own the mes­sage, or that the mes­sage depends on our flow­ery words deliv­ered from podi­ums. We must stay on guard, hum­bled, low and pray­ing to be kept from the temp­ta­tions that sur­round even the most well-meaning renewal attempts. It is our faith­ful­ness to the free gospel min­istry that will ulti­mately deter­mine the fate of our work.

Mar 05

Sodium Free Friends

Yet another group of Friends (doesn’t mat­ter which, it could be any) is plan­ning a pro­gram on “com­mu­nity.” They quote a snip­pet of a 1653 epis­tle on George Fox–you know the one about “Mind that which is eter­nal…” Fine enough, but there’s so much more to the epis­tle that we would fear to quote, like:

We are redeemed by the only redeemer Christ Jesus, not with cor­rupt­ible things, nei­ther is our redemp­tion of man, nor by man, nor accord­ing to the will of man, but con­trary to man’s will. And so, our unity and fel­low­ship with vain man are lost, and all his evil ways are now turned into enmity; and all his pro­fes­sion is now found to be deceit, and in all his fairest pre­tences lod­geth cru­elty; and the bot­tom and ground of all his knowl­edge of God and Christ is found sandy, and can­not endure the tempest.

Inter­est­ing ideas, but not ones most lib­eral Friends would like to tackle. It’s a shame. I wish we would more more actively engage with our tra­di­tion and not just selec­tively edit out a few words which makes Fox sound like a sev­en­teen cen­tury Thich Nhat Hanh. I think we can simul­ta­ne­ously wres­tle with and chal­lenge our tra­di­tion with­out hav­ing to either capit­u­late to it or aban­don it.

After writ­ing the above, I went for a neigh­bor­hood walk with baby asleep in the back­pack. And I real­ized I hadn’t explained why it mat­ters to engage. I didn’t quote the sen­tences about human will­full­ness to show that I’m more sev­en­teenth cen­tury than thee, or to prove I can use the “C” word.
No, I quote it because it’s a rockin’ quote. George Fox is map­ping out for us twenty-first cen­tury Friends just how we might get out of the predica­ment of super­fi­cial “com­mu­nity” we’ve got­ten our­selves into. Every­one from Wal­mart to Walgreen’s, from Hillary Clin­ton to Oprah, is try­ing to sell us on some dream of com­mu­nity com­plete with a price tag from cor­po­rate Amer­ica. Buy our prod­ucts, our polit­i­cal party, our lifestyle and we’ll give you the nar­cotic of con­sumer tar­get­ing. Wear the right right sneaker or drive the right car and you’re part of the in-crowd.

But these com­mu­ni­ties built on the sand just dis­solve in the tide and leave us more stranded than when we started.
We poor humans are look­ing for ways to tran­scend the crap­pi­ness of our war– and consumer-obsessed world. Quak­erism has some­thing to say about that (more than ways to recy­cle plas­tic or stage a protest faux-blockade). We’re toss­ing out the future when we throw away the past, just to live in our TVs. George’s epis­tle men­tions this too:

Let not hard words trou­ble you, nor fair speeches win you; but dwell in the power of truth, in the mighty God, and have salt in your­selves to savour all words, and to stand against all the wiles of the devil, in the mighty power of God.

(Quotes from Epis­tle 24, reprinted here.)

Feb 24

The Passion of Uncomfortable Orthodoxies: Mel Gibson’s “Passion of the Christ”

Mel Gibson’s movie _The Pas­sion of Christ_ is a chal­lenge for many mod­ern Quak­ers. Most of the rich metaphors of co-mingled joy and suf­fer­ing of the early Friends have been dumbed-down to feel-good cliches. Can the debate on this movie help us return to that uncom­fort­able place where we can acknowl­edge the com­plex­i­ties of being fer­vently reli­gious in a world haunted by past sins and still in need of con­vic­tion and comfort?

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