Ye Old Quaker Bathwater Babies Test

June 10, 2021

I’m cur­rent­ly work­ing on an upcom­ing Friends Jour­nal arti­cle that uses Quak­er plain dates: e.g., 9th day of Sixth Month, 2021. I’m going down a bit of a rab­bit hole look­ing up dif­fer­ent Quak­er style guides to fig­ure out a con­sis­tent way of styling them.

I col­lect style guides and the only mod­ern one I’ve found to address it is an early-aughts ver­sion from Friends Gen­er­al Con­fer­ence, orig­i­nal­ly writ­ten in the late 90s by Bar­bara Hir­shkowitz. Bar­bara more or less taught me every­thing I know about edit­ing when we worked togeth­er at New Soci­ety Pub­lish­ers in the ear­ly 90s. Bits of her per­son­al­i­ty come out in the guide so it’s fun to read it and remem­ber her and lat­er addi­tions by Chel Avery are just as won­der­ful. I miss them both, both as edi­tors and friends1

Ear­ly Friends were well known for their idio­syn­crasies. They weren’t afraid of look­ing weird for a prin­ci­ple they believed in. They would risk impris­on­ment, ill­ness, and death for these prin­ci­ples. For exam­ple, their rad­i­cal belief in the equal­i­ty of all peo­ple under Christ 2 led them to refuse to take off their hats in front of judges. Friends were hauled off to jail just for refus­ing this hat hon­or. Plain lan­guage, dress, and dates all set off Friends as a “pecu­liar peo­ple” who were eas­i­ly rec­og­niz­able for stand­ing out. But this was­n’t nec­es­sar­i­ly a bad weird­ness: it also rein­forced their com­mit­ment to a rad­i­cal integrity.

Suc­ceed­ing gen­er­a­tions of Friends chipped away and even­tu­al­ly dropped many of these pecu­liar­i­ties. Much of this was peer pres­sure I sus­pect: being strange got in the way of assim­i­lat­ing into the wider cul­ture. Anoth­er moti­va­tion, espe­cial­ly among more evan­gel­i­cal­ly mind­ed Friends, was out­reach. If we want to bring in the mass­es we should drop the sil­ly, out­dat­ed mark­ers that are sec­ondary to the core mes­sage — that Christ has come to teach the peo­ple himself.

Anoth­er rea­son for the decline is ossi­fi­ca­tion. It’s per­haps inevitable that every reli­gious tra­di­tion will grad­u­al­ly for­get why they do the things they do and start doing them sim­ply because that is some­thing they’ve always. Kids in Quak­er First-day school will be told we don’t swear oaths or don’t gam­ble or vote in our inter­nal decision-making because Friends don’t engage in those activ­i­ties. For­got­ten in this are the bib­li­cal and his­tor­i­cal the­o­log­i­cal ratio­nales for avoid­ing the prac­tices. Mar­garet Fell described this process when she recount­ed the first time hear­ing George Fox preach: “We are all thieves; we have tak­en the Scrip­ture in words, and know noth­ing of them in our­selves.” I think many Friends have tak­en our tra­di­tions most­ly in words. It’s easy to aban­don a prac­tice you don’t understand.

So I thought I’d share my own per­son­al test for decid­ing whether an old Quak­er pecu­liar­i­ty is worth reviv­ing. I’ve prob­a­bly shared this before (the dan­ger when some­one with maybe twelve inter­est­ing ideas has a twenty-plus year old blog3). Here they are:

Can a pecu­liar­i­ty be explained to an out­sider in a few sen­tences with­out the need to give any his­tor­i­cal context?

Is it a prac­tice that one could argue is applic­a­ble to any Christian?

I real­ize the Bible is a con­test realm but could some­one under­stand it from a straight-forward read­ing of the gospels in par­tic­u­lar and maybe even more par­tic­u­lar­ly the Ser­mon on the Mount , from which so many Quak­er tes­ti­monies arise. One of my favorite Quak­er inter­preters is the Angli­can anti­slav­ery activist Thomas Clark­son. He described Quak­er prac­tice for the edu­ca­tion of his denom­i­na­tion — I think he thought some of the ideas were worth poach­ing. Is an old Quak­er prac­tice found in the gospels and could some­one like Clark­son want to import it into their Chris­t­ian tradition?

What babies in the bath­wa­ter are worth pre­serv­ing with this test? Are there tests you use to think about Quak­er practices?

Beyond the MacGuffins: Sheeran’s Beyond Majority Rule

December 26, 2003

A review of Michael Sheer­an’s Beyond Major­i­ty Rule. Twen­ty years lat­er, do Friends need to expe­ri­ence the gath­ered condition?

Beyond Major­i­ty Rule has one of the more unique sto­ries in Quak­er writ­ings. Michael Sheer­an is a Jesuit priest who went to sem­i­nary in the years right after the Sec­ond Vat­i­can Coun­cil. Forged by great changes tak­ing place in the church, he took seri­ous­ly the Coun­cil’s man­date for Roman Catholics to get “in touch with their roots.” He became inter­est­ed in a long-forgotten process of “Com­mu­nal Dis­cern­ment” used by the Jesuit order in when it was found­ed in the mid-sixteenth cen­tu­ry. His search led him to study groups out­side Catholi­cism that had sim­i­lar decision-making struc­tures. The Reli­gious Soci­ety of Friends should con­sid­er itself lucky that he found us. His book often explains our ways bet­ter than any­thing we’ve written.

Sheer­an’s advan­tage comes from being an out­sider firm­ly root­ed in his own faith. He’s not afraid to share obser­va­tions and to make com­par­isons. He start­ed his research with a rather for­mal study of Friends, con­duc­ing many inter­views and attend­ing about ten month­ly meet­ings in Philadel­phia Year­ly Meet­ing. There are sec­tions of the book that are dry expo­si­tions of Quak­er process, sprin­kled by inter­views. There are times where Sheer­an starts say­ing some­thing real­ly insight­ful about ear­ly or con­tem­po­rary Friends, but then backs off to repeat some out­dat­ed Quak­er cliche (he relies a bit too heav­i­ly on the group of mid-century Haverford-based aca­d­e­mics whose his­to­ries often pro­ject­ed their own the­ol­o­gy of mod­ern lib­er­al mys­ti­cism onto the ear­ly Friends). These sec­tions aren’t always very enlight­en­ing – too many Philadel­phia Friends are uncon­scious of their cher­ished myths and their inbed­ded incon­sis­ten­cies. On page 85, he express­es the conun­drum quite eloquently:

If the researcher was to suc­cumb to the all too typ­i­cal canons of social sci­ence, he would prob­a­bly scratch his head a few times atjust this point, note that the ambi­gu­i­ty of Quak­er expres­sion makes accu­rate sta­tis­ti­cal eval­u­a­tion of Quak­er believes almost impos­si­ble with­out invest­ment of untold time and effort, and move on to analy­sis of some less inter­est­ing but more man­age­able object of study.

For­tu­nate­ly for us, Sheer­an does not suc­cumb. The book shines when Sheer­an steps away from the aca­d­e­m­ic role and offers us his sub­jec­tive observations.

There are six pages in Beyond Major­i­ty Rule that com­prise its main con­tri­bu­tion to Quak­erism. Almost every time I’ve heard some­one refer to this book in con­ver­sa­tion, it’s been to share the obser­va­tions of these six pages. Over the years I’ve often casu­al­ly browsed through the book and it’s these six pages that I’ve always stopped to read. The pas­sage is called “Con­flict­ing Myths and Fun­da­men­tal Cleav­ages” and it begins on page 84. Sheer­an begins by relat­ing the obvi­ous observation:

When Friends reflect upon their beliefs, they often focus upon the obvi­ous con­flict between Chris­to­cen­tric and uni­ver­sal­ist approach­es. Peo­ple who feel strong­ly drawn to either camp often see the oth­er posi­tion as a threat to Quak­erism itself.

As a Gen-X’er I’ve often been bored by this debate. It often breaks down into emp­ty lan­guage and the desire to feel self-righteous about one’s beliefs. It’s the MacGuf­fin of con­tem­po­rary lib­er­al Quak­erism. (A MacGuf­fin is a film plot device that dri­ves the action but is in itself nev­er explained and does­n’t real­ly mat­ter: if the spies have to get the secret plans across the bor­der by mid­night, those plans are the MacGuf­fin and the chase the real action.) Today’s debates about Chris­to­cen­trism ver­sus Uni­ver­sal­ism ignore the real issues of faith­less­ness we need to address.

Sheer­an sees the real cleav­age between Friends as those who have­ex­pe­ri­enced the divine and those who haven’t. I’d extend the for­mer just a bit to include those who have faith that the expe­ri­ence of the divine is pos­si­ble. When we sit in wor­ship do we real­ly believe that we might be vis­it­ed by Christ (how­ev­er named, how­ev­er defined)? When we cen­ter our­selves for Meet­ing for Busi­ness do we expect to be guid­ed by the Great Teacher?

Sheer­an found that a num­ber of Friends did­n’t believe in a divine visitation:

Fur­ther ques­tions some­times led to the para­dox­i­cal dis­cov­ery that, for some of these Friends, the expe­ri­ence of being gath­ered even in meet­ing for wor­ship was more of a for­mal rather than an expe­ri­en­tial real­i­ty. For some, the fact that the group had sat qui­ety for twenty-five min­utes was itself iden­ti­fied as being gathered.

There are many clerks that call for a “moment of silence” to begin and end busi­ness – five min­utes of for­mal silence to prove that we’re Quak­ers and maybe to gath­er our argu­ments togeth­er. Meet­ings for busi­ness are con­duct­ed by smart peo­ple with smart ideas and effi­cien­cy is prized. Sit­ting in wor­ship is seen a med­i­ta­tive oasis if not a com­plete waste of time. For these Friends, Quak­erism is a soci­ety of strong lead­er­ship com­bined with intel­lec­tu­al vig­or. Good deci­sions are made using good process. If some Friends choose to describe their own guid­ance as com­ing from “God,” that their indi­vid­ual choice but it is cer­tain­ly not an imper­a­tive for all.

Maybe it’s Sheer­an’s Catholi­cism that makes him aware of these issues. Both Catholics and Friends tra­di­tion­al­ly believe in the real pres­ence of Christ dur­ing wor­ship. When a Friend stands to speak in meet­ing, they do so out of obe­di­ence, to be a mes­sen­ger and ser­vant of the Holy Spir­it. That Friends might speak ‘beyond their Guide’ does not betray the fact that it’s God’s mes­sage we are try­ing to relay. Our under­stand­ing of Christ’s pres­ence is real­ly quite rad­i­cal: “Jesus has come to teach the peo­ple him­self,” as Fox put it, it’s the idea that God will speak to us as He did to the Apos­tles and as He did to the ancient prophets of Israel. The his­to­ry of God being active­ly involved with His peo­ple continues.

Why does this mat­ter? Because as a reli­gious body it is sim­ply our duty to fol­low God and because new­com­ers can tell when we’re fak­ing it. I’ve known self-described athe­ists who get it and who I con­sid­er broth­ers and sis­ters in faith and I’ve known peo­ple who can quote the bible inside and out yet know noth­ing about love (haven’t we all known some of these, even in Quak­erism?). How do we get past the MacGuf­fin debates of pre­vi­ous gen­er­a­tions to dis­till the core of the Quak­er message?

Not all Friends will agree with Sheer­an’s point of cleav­age. None oth­er than the acclaimed Haver­for­dian Dou­glas V Steere wrote the intro­duc­tion to Beyond Major­i­ty Rule and he used it to dis­miss the core six pages as “mod­est but not espe­cial­ly con­vinc­ing” (page x). The unstat­ed con­di­tion behind the great Quak­er reuni­fi­ca­tions of the mid-twentieth cen­tu­ry was a taboo against talk­ing about what we believe as a peo­ple. Quak­erism became an indi­vid­ual mys­ti­cism cou­pled with a world-focused social activism – to talk about the area in between was to threat­en the new unity.

Times have changed and gen­er­a­tions have shift­ed. It is this very in-between-ness that first attract­ed me to Friends. As a nascent peace activist, I met Friends whose deep faith allowed them to keep going past the despair of the world. I did­n’t come to Friends to learn how to pray or how to be a lefty activist (most Quak­er activists now are too self-absorbed to be real­ly effec­tive). What I want to know is how Friends relate to one anoth­er and to God in order to tran­scend them­selves. How do we work togeth­er to dis­cern our divine lead­ings? How do we come togeth­er to be a faith­ful peo­ple of the Spirit?

I find I’m not alone in my inter­est in Sheer­an’s six pages. The fifty-somethings I know in lead­er­ship posi­tions in Quak­erism also seem more ten­der to Sheer­an’s obser­va­tions than Dou­glas Steere was. Twenty-five years after sub­mit­ting his dis­ser­ta­tion, Friends are per­haps ready to be con­vinced by our Friend, Michael J. Sheeran.

Post­script: Michael J Sheer­an con­tin­ues to be an inter­est­ing and active fig­ure. He con­tin­ues to write about gov­er­nance issues in the Catholic Church and serves as pres­i­dent of Reg­is Uni­ver­si­ty in Denver.