A few weeks ago at the meetinghouse on Sunday, someone (who I see there every week) asked my husband whether he’s from a Mennonite family. My husband’s whole family are members of that Meeting. He worshiped with them every Sunday until the MM decided to try out a preparative Meeting closer to his family’s house. Given all the time they volunteer with both monthly and yearly Meeting, I’m sure he knows them, so I said “his dad’s Tom” while he said “no, we’re Quaker.” The guy’s answer was “huh, well I guess Quakers did used to dress that way too.”