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		<title>Cesar Chavez and me</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow, so stunned to read the reports of Cesar Chavez abusing young girls and raping United Farm Worker VP Dolores Huerta. In the mid-80s I was one of the many idealistic college kids who interned with the UFW for a summer. I got to hang out with him a number of times. His son-in-law ran [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, so stunned to read the <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/18/us/cesar-chavez-sexual-abuse-allegations-ufw.html?unlocked_article_code=1.UVA.MphD.jM6QFMH4l1ua&amp;smid=url-share">reports of Cesar Chavez abusing young girls</a> and <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/19/us/dolores-huerta-cesar-chavez-united-farm-workers.html?unlocked_article_code=1.UVA.krVC.ZhKIQb_fd0Ei&amp;smid=url-share">raping United Farm Worker VP Dolores Huerta</a>.</p>
<p>In the mid-80s I was one of the many idealistic college kids who interned with the UFW for a summer. I got to hang out with him a number of times. His son-in-law ran the NYC-based media campaign and Cesar would come for planning meetings but also to visit his daughter and grandkids. She made great cheese enchiladas and all of us would talk late into the night as he told stories.</p>
<p>I do remember thinking—and asking—why the sainted VP Dolores Huerta never actually seemed all that involved, at least not to the point of ever coming East that summer to participate in NYC-based media strategy meetings. It was explained she was needed back in California.<span id="easy-footnote-1-316105" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/cesar-chavez-a-civil-rights-icon-is-accused-of-abusing-girls-for-years/#easy-footnote-bottom-1-316105" title="In retrospect the story she tells in the linked story above of being sent on a wild goose chase to Florida so she would miss an important press conference seems related."><sup>1</sup></a></span> I never met her. I remember not being surprised at all that she didn’t ascend to the UFW presidency when Cesar died. It went instead to the son-in-law who had led our office.</p>
<p>My direct supervisor was a schlub and sexist pig. He was always making inappropriately suggestive comments to the young female interns, which they universally laughed off. They were all smart, confident women with futures who weren’t going to be put off by him. I was the only male intern that summer and he put me in shitty assignments, pressuring me to drop out. I assume I was seen as competition and indeed I did start dating a fellow intern (the only reason I put up with his behavior and made it through the summer). I see he’s still with the UFW, now listed as first vice president, which is not at all inspiring.</p>
<p>It was perhaps the most dysfunctional office culture I’ve ever seen. The union’s influence had obviously declined since the heady days of RFK marching with Cesar in huge rallies. They seemed to jump from fad to fad hoping to recapture attention. That year direct marketing was all the rage in business circles and the UFW was jumping in with both feet. We would spend hours in meetings setting unrealistic expectations, then break our own guidelines to “meet” them. I’d be called out for trying to do things the way we had agreed. I remember wondering if any of the office work I did that summer actually made a jot of difference. Helping to organize East Coast appearances of Cesar was definitely the highlight of the summer—well, that and the girlfriend and getting to hang out in New York City all the time.</p>
<p>I do have to wonder now if some of the dysfunction and sexism in the office was ultimately related to Cesar’s repeated molestation of children.<span id="easy-footnote-2-316105" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/cesar-chavez-a-civil-rights-icon-is-accused-of-abusing-girls-for-years/#easy-footnote-bottom-2-316105" title="Just to be clear, I never saw anything. It seems from these reports that he we went after young Chicana girls back in the isolated farm towns in California"><sup>2</sup></a></span> Did he foster a culture in which we laughed off bad behavior and didn’t question poor management?</p>


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		<title>Origin of the Quaker SPICES testimonies</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[If you ask about Quaker beliefs these days, one of the common answers you’ll get is SPICE, a handy acronym that holds together a hodgepodge of values, namely: simplicity, peace, integrity, community and equality (and later sustainability to become SPICES). One Quaker school definitively puts it, “Quakers agree to a core set of values, known [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>If you ask about Quaker beliefs these days, one of the common answers you’ll get is <em>SPICE</em>, a handy acronym that holds together a hodgepodge of values, namely: <em>simplicity, peace, integrity, community</em> and <em>equality</em> (and later <em>sustainability</em> to become SPICES). One Quaker school definitively puts it, “Quakers agree to a core set of values, known as testimonies.” I’ve not found SPICES listed before 2000 and even many of the individual components are absent from older books of <em>Faith and Practice.</em></p>



<p>The question of where this ubiquitous acronym came from, and when, regularly comes up in Quaker discourse (mostly recently <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quakers/comments/1pn7ras/comment/nub472f/?context=1">on Reddit here</a>). I sometimes answer with the bits I’ve dug up but rather than reinventing the wheel each time, I thought I’d write it all down. I invite people to add what they know in comments and I’ll edit this.</p>



<p><strong>1940s</strong></p>



<p>Howard Brinton was the inventor of our modern idea of a “testimony” in the 1940s, and his original list was <em>community, harmony, equality, and simplicity</em>. He was the Philadelphia-area born Friend who helped organize unprogrammed Friends on the U.S. West Coast in the early part of the twentieth century. Brinton had a knack for simple explanations that expressed the emerging consensus of a new generation of Friends who were healing from the nineteenth-century schisms. Finding new ways of talking about our commonalities was a central part of the work of reconciliation. From his tour de force 1952 masterpiece, <em>Friends for 300 Years:</em></p>



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<p>The meaning of the group in Quaker practice can be suggested by a diagram. Light from God streams down into the waiting group. This Light, if the way is open for it, produces three results: unity, knowledge, and power. As a result we have the kind of behavior which exists as an ideal in a meeting for worship and a meeting for business. Because of the characteristics of the Light of Christ, the resulting behavior can be described in a general way by the four words <em>Community, Harmony, Equality, </em>and <em>Simplicity.…</em></p>
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<p>He included a chart, which honestly doesn’t help much with my understanding of the metaphysics of it all.</p>



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<p><strong>1975</strong></p>



<p>Reader Tomas Mario Kalmar sent me a paper called <em>Learning Community </em>prepared by the Education Commission of Australian Yearly Meeting that lists six “characteristics that distinguished Quaker education”: <em>a religiously guarded education</em>, <em>community</em>, <em>non-violence</em>, <em>equality</em>, <em>simplicity</em>, and <em>an experiential curriculum</em>. The list is largely based on Howard Brinton’s work but I include it here because it shows how Friends were remixing and repurposing his list. <em>Learning Community </em>actually looks pretty good and fairly timeless and Tomas gave me permission to <a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/LearningCommunity1975.pdf">repost the PDF here</a>.</p>



<p><strong>1980–90s</strong></p>



<p>In a Reddit thread a few years ago, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quakers/comments/w584h0/comment/ih84122/">macoafi wrote</a>: “My in-laws were children in first day school in the 1980s and 1990s, and they learned 4 testimonies, no acronym. (Peace, truth, simplicity, equality).” At some point Brinton’s <em>harmony</em> started being called <em>peace</em> so this is mostly his list except for <em>truth</em> being swapped for <em>community</em>.</p>



<p><strong>1981</strong></p>



<p>Commenter Sharon writes:</p>



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<p>I first heard SPICE at the 1981 FGC gathering in Berea KY! At the time it didn’t sit well with me as I found it too glib. I was still working out what God wanted my life to testify too.</p>
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<p>This would put it nearly two decades before from any documented instance I’ve seen. It is also well before any instance I’ve seen that included an I for <em>integrity</em>. I admit I’ll remain skeptical until I see further evidence, though it is possible that someone remembered it from the Berea gathering and started reusing it in the last 1990s.<span id="easy-footnote-3-315726" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/quaker-spices-testimonies/#easy-footnote-bottom-3-315726" title="Another reason my documentation might start in the late 1990s is that's that's the time a lot of formal Quaker organizations launched websites. A printout from a 1981 FGC Gathering, if it were saved, would be in one of <a href=&quot;https://archives.tricolib.brynmawr.edu/resources/4025frge&quot;>over 100 boxes at the Swarthmore College Library</a> (if anyone is nearby, I'd recommend starting with <a href=&quot;https://archives.tricolib.brynmawr.edu/repositories/7/archival_objects/125169&quot;>box 73</a>)."><sup>3</sup></a></span>



</p><p><strong>1990</strong></p>



<p>Wilmer Cooper was an Ohio Wilburite Friend who went on to become first dean of Earlham School of Religion upon its founding in 1960. Thirty years later he published <em>A Living Faith, </em>which was built on an ESR course called Basic Quaker Beliefs. In the preface he writes: “It is my hope that this work will help Friends gain a fuller understanding of their Quaker heritage and theological roots, while providing for non-Quakers a comprehensive answer to the questions: ‘Who are the Quakers?’ and “What is Quakerism?’&nbsp;” In its final chapter Cooper has two lists, which each have four testimonies. His religious testimonies are:</p>



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<li>belief that we can have direct and immediate access to the living God;</li>



<li>we can no only <em>know</em> the will of God but can, by God’s grace, be enabled to <em>do</em> the will of God.</li>



<li>the Quaker experience of of community as expressed in the “gathered meeting.”</li>



<li>the sacramental view of life.</li>
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<p>His social testimonies are:</p>



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<li>Peace Testimony</li>



<li>simplicity</li>



<li>equality</li>



<li>integrity</li>
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<p>He expands to give a paragraph to each of his eight testimonies but obviously the second list is much pithier.<span id="easy-footnote-4-315726" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/quaker-spices-testimonies/#easy-footnote-bottom-4-315726" title="No explanation if given for why that capital-P Peace, capital-T Testimony is the only capitalized item on either list."><sup>4</sup></a></span>. He does say that this isn’t a canonical list, that different Friends will have different lists, and concludes the section on testimonies by, well, testifying: “Friends believe deeply that if they submit themselves to God and live by the Light of Christ they will be enabled to live by the truth of the Gospel.” It’s worth noting that the later SPICE/S formulation didn’t include any of the religious ones (you could perhaps try to claim community dervices from his religious testimonies list but I don’t generally hear the SPICES C described in the kind of spiritual language Cooper used).</p>



<p>The next year Cooper wrote a Pendle Hill pamphlet that <a href="https://archive.org/details/testimonyofinteg0296coop/page/n3/mode/2up">focused on integrity</a>. As far as I’ve seen Cooper is the first to include an I for <em>integrity</em>, setting the stage for our familiar acronym.</p>



<p><strong>Mid-1990s</strong></p>



<p>My wife Julie insists that she remembers talk of SPICE/S back when she was in high school starting to get involved with Friends (circa 1994). She didn’t attend a Quaker school so this would have been in Philadelphia Yearly Meeting circles, probably specifically South Jersey.</p>



<p><strong>Late 1990s</strong></p>



<p>In a comment to this very post, Pendle Hill editor Janaki Spickard Keeler says that when she was working a <a href="https://pendlehill.org/product/quaker-testimony-what-we-witness-to-the-world/">2023 pamphlet with Paul Buckley</a>, they tracked SPICE/S to a&nbsp;Friends Council for Education listserv for educators (perhaps <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20030304212453/http://friendscouncil.org/web/equakes/feedback-form.html">E‑Quakes</a>, which was <a href="https://www.friendscouncil.org/post/~board/about/post/friends-council-timeline-1931-2006">started in 1996</a> according to a FCE history). Janaki writes: “No one came forward as being the first to come up with the idea, but they shared it along themselves and it spread. They estimate this happened around 1998.” The pamphlet quotes Tom Hoopes, who started as director of education for Philadelphia Yearly Meeting in 1998: “I encountered it in use by one of the monthly meetings of Philadelphia Yearly Meeting, and I thought to myself, ‘what a great mnemonic device for helping people to remember what we Quakers claim to prioritize, and to try to practice!’” Tom told Janaki and Paul that he didn’t remember the identity of the Friends meeting.</p>



<p><strong>1999</strong></p>



<p>The Summer 1999 edition of <a href="https://salemquarter.net/salem-qm/news/1999-2/spice.htm">Salem Quarter (N.J.) News</a> reports that Woodstown Meeting created a SPICE rap in for a First-day School program which also included songs from Spice Girls. Yes it’s as unique as it sounds:</p>



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<p><em>What’s the word? SPICE!!!! What’s the word? SPICE IS THE WAY TO GO!!!!</em><br><em>Simplicity is simple, and you know it’s right. Squanderin’ money gets ya into a fight.</em><br><em>Peace, it rules, and you know that it’s true. It’s the thing I need to get along with you. Don’t yell and sing those fightin’ songs, when you can help others and right their wrongs.</em><br><em>Integrity is always bein’ true to your word. It’s the most honest testimony I’ve ever heard.</em><br><em>Livin’ and a‑sharin’ all together’s really fun. Community is helpin’, workin’, playin’ all in one.</em><br><em>Equality means everyone is equal, and that’s cool.</em><br><em>Respecting other is what’s right and is the golden rule!!</em> </p>



<p>Note that the article gives a clue on source: “After reading a short article in&nbsp;Philadelphia Yearly Meeting News with the acronym SPICE highlighting the testimonies… [we] were inspired to incorporate this into our First Day School Program at Woodstown MM.” The oldest copy of <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20000829070133/http://www.pym.org/publish/pym-news/index.htm">PYM News available via Archive.org</a> is tantalizingly close—Nov/December 1999. That seems to be when PYM started posting its newsletter.<span id="easy-footnote-5-315726" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/quaker-spices-testimonies/#easy-footnote-bottom-5-315726" title="My wife Julie was hanging around Woodstown at this time, as her friend Phil Anthony was coordinator of Salem Quarter and had his office at the meetinghouse."><sup>5</sup></a></span>
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<p><strong>2003</strong></p>



<p>Google finds a PDF of a <a href="https://www.dialoguejournal.com/articles/the-quaker-peace-testimony/">2003 talk given to a Unitarian Universalist church</a> by Salt Lake City Friend Diana Lee Hirschi in 2003 talking about SPICE. </p>



<p><strong>2004</strong></p>



<p>I myself <a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/quaker_testimonies/">first complained about SPICE in 2004</a> (note it hadn’t gotten a second S yet). I complained that this kind of list of secular testimonies were too restrictive. I really was a Quaker Ranter back then; also I was really kind of hard on Brinton, who I appreciate more now.</p>



<p><strong>2006</strong></p>



<p>I like to search the <em>Friends Journal</em> archives to see when new terms show up. New terms are often bandied about by particular Friends or within sub-groups, where they might circulate for a few years without getting into wider usage. As far as I’ve been able to determine, the first reference to SPICES in <em>Friends Journal</em> is a 2006 article by Harriett Heath titled “<a href="https://www.friendsjournal.org/2006017/">The Quaker Parenting Project: A Report</a>.” She’s lays it out as an attempt to teach Quaker children without resorting to dogma:</p>



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<p>There are several different lists of testimonies. We started with one commonly referred to by the acronym SPICES: Simplicity, Peace, Integrity, Community, Equality, and Stewardship—but we found that there were other issues not addressed by this list. Service is an integral part of Quakerism in our efforts to live our faith; should it be a testimony? Education has been historically an integral part of Quakersim; should it, too, be included? Where does worship—time set apart—fit in?</p>
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<p>Her project eventually picked a different list because they didn’t want to be bound by the dictates of fitting into an acronym. They included <em>conflict</em> and <em>growth</em> and <em>service </em>(which sometimes is listed as the final S).</p>



<p><strong>2007/2008 videos</strong></p>



<p>In 2007, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3ijI27-7lQ">British Friends could produce a video called “The Quaker Testimonies”</a> that didn’t mention SPICE/S and ranged over other non-acronymed testimonies such as one for <em>respect</em> and another against <em>oath-taking</em>. If you listen carefully, I think at least one of the speakers must have heard of SPICE because he seemed to be organizing thoughts around it. </p>



<p>In 2008 I talked about <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ALTkbC0k2y8">SPICE and spiritually getting deeper with testimonies</a> in a YouTube video and <a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/the_quaker_testimonies_as_our/">accompanying blog post</a>.</p>



<p><strong>2009</strong></p>



<p>Brinton scholar Anthony Manousos did a <a href="https://laquaker.blogspot.com/2009/10/how-how-brinton-invented-spice-quaker.html">deep dive on SPICES</a>. Although Anthony claims Briton invented SPICES <em>per se</em>, I think he just invented the idea of testimonies and the initial list that included three of them (four if you count the <em>harmony/peace</em> change).</p>



<p><strong>2011</strong></p>



<p>Less than two years after Heath’s article, Mark Dansereau and Kim Tsocanos, the co-heads of Connecticut Friends School in Wilton, Conn., published an <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20110421083710/https://www.friendsjournal.org/s-p-i-c-e-s-quaker-testimonies/">annotated list of SPICES in <em>Friends Journal</em></a><em>,</em> explaining that their school was built on these&nbsp;“<em>Six Quaker Values</em>” (yes, italicized and capitalized) and that they applied and wove them into each activity in their curricula. This might be one of the oldest fully-intact listings still easily available on the web. This has become one of the most visited pages on <em>Friends Journal</em> website.</p>



<p><strong>2012</strong></p>



<p>By this time SPICE/S was becoming ubiquitous. See this <a href="https://spokanefriends.org/2012/01/30/quaker-spice-five-equality-2/">blog post from Northwest Yearly Meeting</a> and a video Brent Bill put together to <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbB-GNHR2oM&amp;t=15s">promote an upcoming introductory workshop</a> at his meeting in Indiana.</p>



<p>Paul Buckley gave a <a href="https://share.evernote.com/note/c75dc528-7e02-402f-892f-e6462dfe03ad">talk in 2012</a> that highlighted the role of Wilmer Cooper, an Ohio Friend perhaps most well remembered for founding Earlham School of Religion in 1960. In 2023, Paul Buckley wrote a pamphlet from Pendle Hill, <em><a href="https://pendlehill.org/product/quaker-testimony-what-we-witness-to-the-world/">Quaker Testimony: What We Witness to the World</a></em>, edited by Janaki Spickard Keeler, during which they determined the late 1990s date.</p>



<p><strong>2013</strong></p>



<p>Someone around 2006 I&nbsp;was standing in a&nbsp;meal line at a&nbsp;Quaker event with California Friend Eric Moon and we started to talk about testimonies. It was the start of a&nbsp;great conversation, cut short by some interruption or another before we even hit the dessert station. When I&nbsp;started as&nbsp;<em>Friends</em>&nbsp;<em>Journal</em>&nbsp;editor I&nbsp;asked him to write something. 2013’s&nbsp;<a href="https://www.friendsjournal.org/categorically-not-the-testimonies/">Categorically Not the Testimonies&nbsp;</a>was the result. We also&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/live/ZQS_4Kx70c0?si=KdV5DNJ2pnTx2PSe">talked in an early Quaker Author Podcast</a>.</p>



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<p>So where did the SPICES formulation come from? It ultimately derived from Brinton’s list, with <em>harmony</em> morphing to <em>peace</em> and WIl Cooper’s <em>integrity</em> adding an I. Given its pedagogical nature, it was probably coined by educators. It’s a good teaching tool, easy to remember and something you can easily weave into a multi-week class. </p>



<p>Since there’s nothing particularly religious about the SPICE/S list, it can work in an essentially secular environment that might be allergic to religious-sounding Quaker theology. This would include Friends schools appealing to a non-Quaker audience or a Liberal Friends Meeting that wants something non-controversial to teach the kids. I never hear anyone talk about it being derived from “characteristics of the Light of Christ,” as Brinton did when he introduced it.</p>



<p>In the last few years it’s become pretty ubiquitous on TikTok and other short-form video (<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@discoveringquakers/video/7552880555549920534?q=quaker&amp;t=1766429802250">Discovering Quakers</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@_gloyoyo_/video/7465663832241851690">_gloyoyo_</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmekatevee/video/7482497067537927455">itsmekatevee</a>).<span id="easy-footnote-6-315726" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/quaker-spices-testimonies/#easy-footnote-bottom-6-315726" title="No disrepect, I'm <a href=&quot;https://www.quakerranter.org/influencing-quakers/&quot;>already on record as liking _gloyoyo_'s videos</a>, even the ones that are only about building wild sugary drinks from Wawa ingredients."><sup>6</sup></a></span> If you have five minutes to tell a general audience about Quakers, bite-sized descriptions are important. Also: some of these content creators are probably younger than the term itself. Also: I’ve finally grown into the <a href="https://memepediadankmemes.fandom.com/wiki/Old_Man_Yells_at_Cloud">Old Man Yelling at the Clouds meme</a>. SPICES is here to stay.</p>



<p>Is SPICES all that terrible? No, not really. It can be handy. But it is pretty annoying that we’ve confused a list of generic values for belief. And it’s super annoying that even that list of values is hemmed in by the requirement that every component fit into a silly acronym.<span id="easy-footnote-7-315726" class="easy-footnote-margin-adjust"></span><span class="easy-footnote"><a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/quaker-spices-testimonies/#easy-footnote-bottom-7-315726" title="And don't even get me started with people trying to make SPICINESS work or come up with another stupid acronym."><sup>7</sup></a></span>



</p><p>What’s funny about the mystery of this is that there’s a very good chance that the person who first listed out SPICE is still around. There’s a box in someone’s garage packed with late-1990s newsletters, one of which lists it out for the first time in print. Anyone with any information can comment below or email me at <a href="mailto:martink@martinkelley.com">martink@martinkelley.com</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Odds and ends: last weekend my Friends meeting took a trip to John Woolman Association in Mount Holly, New Jersey, dedicated to the 18th century Quaker abolitionist; highly recommended if you’re in the area. On the way out of town I visited the Shinn Curtis Log House from 1712, which was so encased by additions [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Odds and ends: last weekend my Friends meeting took a <a href="https://cropwellquakers.org/a-visit-to-john-woolmans-house/">trip to John Woolman Association</a> in Mount Holly, New Jersey, dedicated to the 18th century Quaker abolitionist; highly recommended if you’re in the area. On the way out of town I <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/martinkelley.com/post/3lzjspf62gk2p">visited the Shinn Curtis Log House from 1712</a>, which was so encased by additions over the centuries that the original house was forgotten until demolition of the later house in the late 1960s. </p>



<p>My <a href="https://whyy.org/articles/new-jersey-pbs-shutting-down-television-channel/">state public media PBS station</a> has announced they’re ceasing operations next year, hit hard by both federal and state budget cuts. Wedged between two top-five U.S. media markets (New York and Philly), statewide news is often an afterthought to their stations, so our PBS has been important. It’s also commissioned lots of quirky local history documentaries. In other media news, I’m excited for <a href="https://youtu.be/_pa1KLXuW0Y?si=12RD3LDyV0ONRkfh">next year’s Mandalorian movie</a>, though my two Star Wars kids are worried that the trailer is too cute.</p>



<p>Glad to see my new colleague Renzo Carranza in the <a href="https://quakerspeak.com/video/transforming-the-spirit-liberation-theology-and-the-inner-light/">latest QuakerSpeak</a>.</p>
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		<title>YouTube star Jessica Kellgren-Fozard on her Quakerism</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Martin Kelley]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2018 11:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Jessica Kellgren-Fozard is a disabled TV presenter with 266,000+ followers on YouTube. She’s also a lifelong Friend from the UK. She’s just released a video in which she talks about her understanding of Quakerism. It’s pretty good. She occasionally implies that some specifically British procedural process is intrinsic to all Quakers but other than that [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jessica Kellgren-Fozard is a disabled TV presenter with 266,000+ followers on YouTube. She’s also a lifelong Friend from the UK. She’s just released a video in which she talks about her understanding of Quakerism. It’s pretty good. She occasionally implies that some specifically British procedural process is intrinsic to all Quakers but other than that it all rings true, certainly to her experience as a UK Friend.</p>
<p>I must admit that the world of YouTube stars is foreign to me. This is essentially a webcam vlog post but the lighting and hair and costuming is meticulous. Her notes include affiliate links for the dress she’s wearing ($89 and yes, they ship internationally), a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wMLEAwCrHwo">8 1/2 minute video tutorial about curling you hair in her vintage style</a> (it has over 33,000 views). If you follow her on&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/jessicaoutofthecloset/">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/JessicaOOTC">Twitter</a>&nbsp;you’ll soon have enough details on &nbsp;lipstick and shoe choices to be able to fully cosplay her.</p>
<p>But don’t laugh too much, because in between the self presentation tips, Kellgren-Fozard tackles really hard subjects–growing up gay in school, living with disabilities–in ways that are approachable and intimate, funny and instructive. And with a quarter million YouTube followers, she’s reaching people with a message of kindness and inclusion and understanding that feels pretty Quakerly to me. Margaret Fell <a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/margaret_fells_red_dress_2004/">liked herself a red dress</a> sometimes and it’s easy to argue George Fox would be a YouTuber today.</p>
<p>Bonus: &nbsp;Jessica Kellgren-Fozard will host a <a href="https://twitter.com/JessicaOOTC/status/1019607079357698048">live Q&amp;A chat on her Quakerism this coming Monday</a>. If I’m calculating my timezones correctly, it’ll be noon here on the U.S. East Coast. I plan to tune in.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2018 21:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hye Sung Francis on life and Friendly Fire Friendly Fire doesn’t exist to build our own brand. We are not a church-planting movement. We are a bunch of poor kids who love God and people. As a collective, we hope to nurture the emerging Religious/Christian Left.]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>Friendly Fire doesn’t exist to build our own brand. We are not a church-planting movement. We are a bunch of poor kids who love God and people. As a collective, we hope to nurture the emerging Religious/Christian Left. </p></blockquote>
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					<description><![CDATA[We didn’t see much of the Hammonton Fourth of July parade this year because once again the kids were in the bike parade portion (all except Francis, who had a bad meltdown in the morning and stayed home with mom). The bike parade was again sponsored by Toy Market, the independent toy store in town [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We didn’t see much of the Hammonton Fourth of July parade this year because once again the kids were in the bike parade portion (all except Francis, who had a bad meltdown in the morning and stayed home with mom).</p>
<p>The bike parade was again sponsored by <a href="https://www.mytoymarket.com/">Toy Market</a>, the independent toy store in town (supplier of much of our household’s Santa delivery). They had a table full of red, white, and blue bunting that we could apply to the bikes. We all had a lot of fun.</p>
<p>Notes for next year: a tandem extension on a adult bike looked like fun and then 7‑yo Gregory will be a good age for this (we should dig ours out from the back of the garage). Also: the parade has a dog contingent so maybe a much-calmer Francis will be able to be part of that next year (we’re due to pick up the service dog in 12 days!, eeek!!!)</p>
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		<title>Listening: Hidden Brain episode 53, “Embrace the Chaos”</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2016 16:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[From the NPR description: Many of us spend lots of time and energy trying to get organized. We KonMari our closets, we strive for inbox zero, we tell our kids to clean their rooms, and our politicians to clean up Washington. But Economist Tim Harford says, maybe we should embrace the chaos. His new book [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>From the <a href="http://www.npr.org/podcasts/510308/hidden-brain">NPR description</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Many of us spend lots of time and energy trying to get organized. We KonMari our closets, we strive for inbox zero, we tell our kids to clean their rooms, and our politicians to clean up Washington. But Economist Tim Harford says, maybe we should embrace the chaos. His new book is Messy: The Power of Disorder to Transform Our Lives.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/gregorycity.jpg?ssl=1"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-56902 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/gregorycity.jpg?resize=300%2C209&#038;ssl=1" alt="gregorycity" width="300" height="209" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/gregorycity.jpg?resize=300%2C209&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/gregorycity.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px"></a>Uh-oh, should we stop being so fussy about cleaned-up rooms. Just last night I spent 45 minutes cajoling and threatening and begging my five year old to clean an amazing block city he had constructed in the living room. Curiously, the link to the podcast was sent to me by my wife.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2016 00:22:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Last year, the kids and I made a framed handprint collage-like present for Julie and Mothers Day (right). This year I followed it up with a folksy photo of each of the kids holding up hand-drawn letters spelling out “LOVE.” This was inspired by this 2009 post on a blog called The Inadvertent Farmer. The [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?ssl=1"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-41677 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1" alt="DIY Mother's Day present kid handprint." width="300" height="225" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/IMG_0370.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px"></a></p>
<p>Last year, the kids and I made a <a href="https://www.quakerranter.org/?s=mothers+day+2015">framed handprint collage-like present</a> for Julie and Mothers Day (right). This year I followed it up with a folksy photo of each of the kids holding up hand-drawn letters spelling out “LOVE.” This was inspired by this <a href="http://sweetgrace.typepad.com/the_inadvertent_farmer/2009/12/easy-photo-project-valentines-mothers-day-birthday.html">2009 post on a blog</a> called <em>The Inadvertent Farmer</em>.</p>
<p>The first step was getting pictures of each kid with a letter. It wasn’t too bad as I just had to take enough to get each one looking cute.</p>
<p><a href="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?ssl=1"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-41680 size-large" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1" alt="Here are the four pictures that went into this year's frame. As you can see, it is very basic, just paper and marker. Writing the letters freeform gives it a folksy, personalized charm." width="640" height="640" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/File-May-09-2-26-32-PM.jpeg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px"></a></p>
<p>A trickier task&nbsp;was finding a&nbsp;frame to display four pictures. It took the third store before I lucked out. Because of the timing,&nbsp;I had actually printed the pictures before I had the frame and so had fingers crossed that the&nbsp;size would work.</p>
<p><a href="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?ssl=1"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft wp-image-41681 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?resize=300%2C300&#038;ssl=1" alt="Mothers Day T-minus-one: Three of the kids helped me frame the pictures the night before." width="300" height="300" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0030.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px"></a></p>
<p><a href="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916.jpg?ssl=1"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-41682 size-medium" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300&#038;ssl=1" alt="Framed Mothers Day presents two years running!" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0031-e1464479479916.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px"></a></p>
<p>Once made, the absolute hardest&nbsp;was getting a group shot of the kids with Julie holding it!</p>
<p><a href="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?ssl=1"><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-41685 size-large" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?resize=640%2C480&#038;ssl=1" alt="Proud Mama with her Mothers Day present from the kids." width="640" height="480" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https://i0.wp.com/www.quakerranter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/IMG_0037.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px"></a></p>
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