We shouldn’t be surprised that there’s a Quaker connection: Samuel George Morton was raised as a Friend and educated at the Quaker Westtown boarding school. A generation later, Friend Henry W Goddard coined the word “moron” in now-discredited pseudoscience.
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2026 (19)
- 10/20 : Cropwell Meeting Open House
- 08/20 : Be Ready to Answer the Phone
- 08/20 : Truitt Family Visits Meeting
- 06/30 : The Peaceable Kingdom Lost
- 03/19 : Cesar Chavez and me
- 01/27 : Indigenous and Quaker Both
2025 (75)
- 12/11 : Talking about Who We Believe In
- 12/01 : What Do Quakers Believe?
- 10/23 : Letter Regarding FUM Finances
- 10/22 : Earlham College’s woes
- 10/15 : Reviving Queer Worship
- 09/26 : South Jersey Trips
- 09/04 : September Friends Journal
- 07/26 : Tread and Trample
- 07/15 : Ready to die for the silence
- 07/12 : What Have Friends Been Reading?
- 07/02 : Influencing Quakers
- 06/25 : TV wars
- 06/05 : Being Ready for the Seekers
- 05/02 : Margaret Fell Quaker
- 05/01 : Trip to Harper’s Ferry
- 03/11 : A new era of alt media?
- 03/11 : Choosing to thrive
- 03/11 : How do we use money?
- 03/11 : NASA’s Eyes
- 03/11 : Where Do We Find Our Hope?
- 03/11 : Bring back personal blogging
- 03/11 : Miracles with Diane Allen
- 03/11 : The Future of Frieds
- 03/11 : And Who Are Our Friends?
- 02/05 : Preparing for This
- 01/28 : Growing Meetings
- 01/02 : How do we use money?
2024 (60)
- 12/18 : The Quaker Twitter eXodus
- 12/05 : Religious-sounding language
- 12/01 : Hope and Optimism
- 11/19 : The Quaker Witch Trial
- 11/13 : Bluesky Quakers
- 11/12 : The art of the compromise
- 11/06 : We Know
- 11/05 : Miracles with Diane Allen
- 10/22 : A Future Vision of Friends
- 10/10 : Radical Quaker Benjamin Lay
- 10/04 : And Who Are Our Friends?
- 10/03 : Seen
- 09/13 : Nancy Bieber loves her meeting
- 09/06 : FJ looks at Relationships
- 08/05 : Quakers and Gaming
- 07/31 : August Friends Journal
- 07/11 : George Fox was a Coward, Maybe?
- 07/03 : Book Review Editor Search
- 06/11 : Supping with the Spirit
- 06/11 : Meet me at the FGC Gathering
- 06/05 : Back to Jesus
- 06/01 : Quakers’ War Problem
- 05/31 : Deferred Horror Close to Home
- 05/02 : Links
- 04/14 : Links
- 04/11 : Quakers and “the Church”
- 04/06 : Eavesdropping on Ministers
- 04/06 : Prophets and Reconcilers
- 04/06 : Links
- 03/21 : Sources of spiritual power
- 03/20 : Holding in the Light
- 03/13 : Interviewing John Calvi
- 03/12 : Meeting John Woolman
- 03/11 : Links
- 02/08 : The New Quaker Histories
- 02/07 : Quaker dreaming
- 02/01 : Why they left the Quakers
- 01/30 : Thanks!
- 01/30 : Links
2023 (91)
- 12/29 : Faith and Public Ministry
- 12/29 : Year-end list
- 12/14 : Links
- 12/05 : Early December Links
- 12/01 : Public Friends
- 11/27 : It’s‑December Links
- 11/20 : Later November Links
- 11/12 : Moving on, Keeping On
- 11/11 : Mid-November Links
- 11/09 : Mysterious promptings
- 11/09 : Mid-early November Links
- 10/31 : Early November Links
- 10/26 : The Source of Quaker Authority
- 10/24 : Late October Links
- 10/19 : Navigating Hyphenation
- 10/16 : Later October Links
- 10/10 : Mid-October Links
- 10/04 : Traddy Quakers?
- 10/02 : Jesus said he’d show up
- 10/01 : Early October links
- 09/28 : Punk-rock Quakerism?
- 09/24 : What are we waiting for?
- 09/23 : Late September links
- 09/20 : An expected miracle
- 09/20 : QuakerQuaker update
- 09/18 : Later September Links
- 09/11 : The Cycles of War
- 09/11 : Mid-September Links
- 09/05 : Links
- 08/31 : Indiana and slo-mo realignment
- 08/28 : Links
- 08/24 : Two social networks?
- 08/19 : Links
- 08/17 : The Quaker yet to be convinced
- 08/16 : Quakerquaker housekeeping
- 08/15 : Outreach in the real world
- 07/02 : Belong behave believe
- 06/08 : RIP Apollo app
- 05/26 : Functional theology
- 05/08 : The Friendly Mennonite
- 05/05 : Testimonies and scandals
- 04/28 : The Golden Rule comes to Philly
- 04/04 : War and Peace
- 04/01 : Ten Miles Round
- 03/27 : Quakers on Wikipedia
- 03/23 : Remembering Feisty
- 03/06 : Oooh!, a Quaker zine
- 02/14 : Truth and integrity retreat
- 02/04 : The awfulness of ministry
- 02/02 : Finding Our Ways
- 02/02 : Sunsetting My Twitter
- 01/23 : Writing Opp: Quaker Leadership
- 01/06 : Autopsy for Quaker Meetings?
- 01/04 : Updating QuakerQuaker
- 01/04 : Quaker sing song ministry
- 01/03 : Quakers and Reparations
2022 (53)
- 12/23 : Outreachiest Ever Redux
- 12/19 : Caroling at Cropwell
- 12/14 : 25 years
- 12/12 : Making a fetish of silence?
- 12/11 : Ezra Klein on the Quaker Way
- 12/01 : Becoming one in worship
- 11/25 : Quakers on Mastodon
- 11/16 : Quakers Today podcast launched
- 11/09 : QuakerRanter in the Fediverse
- 11/08 : A Mastodon Do-over?
- 11/01 : Quaker Fiction
- 10/21 : Nearly all Friends
- 10/10 : Too much politeness?
- 10/10 : Irish Quaker podcast
- 10/09 : Cool weather
- 10/03 : Worship without walls
- 09/23 : Unbinding the local
- 09/23 : Visiting new meetings online
- 08/07 : The Nearness of God as Spirit
- 07/07 : Mark Russ on vocal ministry
- 05/10 : Quaker Spring 2022
- 04/07 : Bayard Rustin in Friends Journal
- 03/31 : Cesar Chavez Day memories
- 02/25 : War is (still) not the answer
- 02/02 : Quakers, slavery, and sugar
- 01/28 : Back to Fox
2021 (19)
- 10/15 : Speaking to our conditions
- 10/04 : Bogus religion
- 07/08 : The Kingdom of the Heavens
- 06/10 : Fluidity over procedures
- 06/10 : Switching to a weekly format
- 05/13 : Coming to Friends
- 05/13 : A Quaker view of work?
- 03/18 : Who’s the misfit?
- 03/18 : An intro to Barclay’s Apology
2020 (61)
- 10/28 : Gone and back
- 10/21 : Modern-day apocalypticism
- 10/08 : Union win at Brooklyn Friends
- 10/05 : Brooklyn Friends School strike
- 10/04 : Unpleasant teachings
- 09/28 : These most trying of days
- 09/28 : Online Bible series
- 09/28 : Quaker calendar alternatives
- 09/27 : Eldering as a practice
- 08/14 : Dancing the Change
- 07/18 : Living the Quaker life
- 05/12 : Diversity why?
- 05/11 : Sidwell’s Quaker Values
- 04/27 : We Began to Sing
- 04/23 : A wider Quaker fellowship
- 04/18 : Emily Provance on QuakerSpeak
- 04/18 : What can you say?
- 04/08 : Arthur Berk
- 04/03 : Finding a fit among Friends
- 04/02 : A new daily practice
- 03/18 : Love in the Time of Coronavirus
- 02/01 : A Lamb’s War skirmish
- 01/28 : Hurt by the Meeting
- 01/24 : FJ Writing Opp: Thin Spaces
2019 (70)
- 10/31 : Quakers and Christianity
- 10/29 : Everything’s a blog
- 10/25 : Unnamed Quaker Creeds
- 10/21 : FJ Poetry Editor search
- 06/16 : Visiting Petty Island
- 06/10 : Foodways and Folkways
- 05/31 : Twitter thread of the day
- 05/01 : We don’t worship silence
- 04/22 : Jesus the key to my experience
- 04/15 : Are Quakers Christian?
- 04/02 : George Fox Speaking
- 03/28 : Liberty of the Spirit
- 03/22 : “We tried that back in 1937”
- 03/21 : William Penn on community
- 03/07 : A more modern commission
- 03/07 : What Does the Outside Say?
- 03/07 : A bit of racism at Sidwell
- 03/04 : Another Quaker(ish) president?
- 02/13 : Quakerly competition?
- 02/13 : Belonging and difference
- 02/10 : A what-if
- 02/08 : Evangelistic malpractice
- 02/08 : Keeping cradle Quakers
- 02/06 : Poking pigs?
- 01/31 : Polarization
- 01/25 : What is our vocation?
- 01/19 : What is Renewal?
- 01/14 : Life after Death
- 01/11 : Decolonizing Quaker faith
- 01/10 : Lost Bayard Rustin interview
- 01/09 : Top 10 Quakers in fiction
- 01/08 : Help keep the work going!
- 01/04 : Unlocking the commons
- 01/03 : In defense of Quaker media
- 01/03 : Where do we hear God’s voice?
- 01/03 : Trustworthy Friends
- 01/02 : Hey y’all, let’s start a blog!
2018 (257)
- 12/20 : Humor in Religion
- 12/18 : QuakerSpeak Staff Picks
- 12/18 : A Space for Doubt
- 12/13 : A small break
- 11/13 : Mike Shell reviews book reviews
- 11/07 : The gray wave that wasn’t
- 11/02 : Anointing
- 11/01 : The freedom to seek sanctuary
- 10/26 : Being God’s Hands
- 10/26 : Quakerism of the Future
- 10/23 : Redefining rude
- 10/23 : The end of religious liberty?
- 09/28 : Self-reinforcing Cycles
- 08/23 : Isaac Smith: Good soil
- 08/22 : Creeds and stories
- 08/19 : Remembering David McReynolds
- 08/16 : A New Creation Story
- 08/16 : Becoming a Quaker Minister
- 08/15 : Civility Can Be Dangerous
- 08/13 : Is this what people want?
- 08/07 : Apologies…
- 08/02 : Seeking a People
- 07/30 : Alastair McIntosh interviewed
- 07/30 : A New Quakerism
- 07/27 : Quaker Money
- 07/26 : Autopsy of a Deceased Church
- 07/19 : What do Quaker believe anyway?
- 07/16 : Dynamics of Evil
- 06/29 : Red Hens, resistance, and love
- 06/24 : Meeting as Covenant Community
- 06/23 : Review: Sacred Signposts
- 06/22 : Sowing in tears
- 06/22 : Sowing in tears
- 06/22 : Sowing in tears
- 06/19 : Mafias and chaos
- 06/11 : Syncretism and dilution
- 06/08 : Legacy or burden?
- 06/07 : Make Quakerism Militant Again
- 06/01 : Spirit-Led Evangelism
- 06/01 : Spirit-Led Evangelism
- 06/01 : Spirit-Led Evangelism
- 06/01 : Spirit-Led Evangelism
- 06/01 : Spirit-Led Evangelism
- 06/01 : Creativity and the Arts
- 05/31 : Who tells our story
- 05/23 : The Rise of Liberal Quakerism
- 05/22 : Hometown Heroes
- 05/22 : Lifting up the vocabulary
- 05/22 : Our unease with evil
- 05/11 : Making meetings simpler
- 05/11 : Foxy George
- 05/10 : Barking up the family tree
- 05/10 : Photons Don’t Phail
- 05/05 : We don’t need God?
- 04/26 : Reading the Qur’an as a Quaker
- 04/24 : Eternities
- 04/23 : The open (Quaker) web
- 04/23 : Developing a healing ministry
- 04/20 : Regarding Pronouns
- 04/20 : Risking Community
- 04/13 : What might Love do?
- 04/12 : Quaker Jazz
- 04/11 : Does this need to be said?
- 04/10 : Profiting on empire
- 04/06 : Do Friends Query?
- 04/05 : None of us is a volunteer
- 04/05 : Quakers shake things up
- 04/04 : Sowing seeds
- 04/04 : Whassup Quaker Internet?
- 04/03 : Belief, Faith, and “That of God”
- 04/03 : Spring and healing
- 03/29 : Quakers and Mental Health
- 03/28 : The Seed as Quaker metaphor
- 03/27 : Hope in the Middle East
- 03/26 : Hitler jokes and Quaker schools
- 03/25 : The New Way
- 03/22 : Quakers in Politics today!
- 03/19 : Mixing Quakers & Politics
- 03/16 : Painting for Worship
- 03/16 : The Art of Persuasion
- 03/15 : Only Quakerism?
- 03/13 : Authentic anecdotes
- 03/12 : A Friend’s journey to BDS
- 03/09 : Your Hand in Front of Your Face
- 03/09 : A chatty email newsletter
- 03/05 : Daily quotes
- 03/02 : The Quaker-Methodist Connection
- 03/01 : Quakers in evolution
- 03/01 : Getting vs. Feeling Better
- 02/27 : Weak politics
- 02/27 : QOTD: Patricia Dallmann
- 02/26 : Breath of the Ancestors
- 02/25 : Living by the Sword
- 02/25 : The new traveling ministries
- 02/24 : Can Quakerism Survive?
- 02/21 : Talkative Friends
- 02/21 : Long shadows
- 02/21 : Fiery Feeds 2 review
- 02/14 : Weymouth NJ Church
2017 (30)
- 11/04 : November Flashbacks
- 11/01 : Essential Mac Apps 2017
- 10/11 : The lost A List
- 08/11 : Quakers acting badly
- 07/05 : Chris Christie, meme muse
- 07/05 : Hammonton 2017 Fourth of July
- 05/03 : Nancy’s Secret Garden
- 04/29 : Tybee Island Light
- 04/29 : Oatland Island near Savannah
- 04/24 : In praise of an editor past
- 04/24 : I sense a metaphor
- 04/20 : The bandwidth of memories
- 04/20 : Bridge view
- 04/20 : TIME/PARK
- 04/20 : Underground
- 03/22 : The Quaker Art of Dying?
- 03/17 : Black with a capital B
- 02/23 : The Quaker Ecosystem
- 01/31 : Shock and awe and pushback
- 01/20 : Mixing it up
- 01/03 : Quaker news editor needed
2016 (61)
- 12/15 : Windows
- 12/01 : Friends on Giving
- 12/01 : Chatting with Greg Woods
- 11/17 : Fake News and Clickbait
- 11/15 : New from Neil Young
- 11/15 : Trying out Google PhotoScan
- 11/12 : Seeing how it goes
- 11/12 : Jobs disappearing thread
- 11/11 : You want it darker
- 11/10 : 80s Flashback Time
- 11/10 : Shitty jobs that don’t exist
- 11/09 : The Messy Work Begins
- 11/09 : Waking up to President Trump
- 10/23 : Ephrata Cloister
- 10/22 : Train passing the farm
- 10/20 : Night on the farm
- 10/17 : Lighthouse Challenge 2016
- 10/16 : Sea Girt Lighthouse
- 10/07 : City Hall morning
- 09/10 : QuakerQuaker on the move
- 08/09 : Comcastic legacy
- 07/06 : Who wore it better?
- 06/29 : The Quaker Wars?
- 06/20 : Indigo Girls in Ocean City NJ
- 06/13 : Love will win
- 06/11 : A choir of toads
- 05/31 : Share if you remember these!
- 05/31 : Bike to Work 2016
- 05/12 : Delayed readership
- 05/09 : Mothers Day 2016 L‑O‑V‑E
- 03/23 : Drinking profits
- 03/06 : Bleak Batsto day
- 03/04 : The birth of soul
- 02/19 : Hashtagging politics
2015 (43)
- 11/18 : Going lefty
- 10/14 : Toynbee Tile “Stickman”
- 10/10 : Smiling Laura and Theo
- 09/09 : Unlikely collaborators
- 09/02 : Autism, anxiety, and bullies
- 09/01 : Video: Quaker Myths Busted
- 08/15 : Saying goodbye to Mom
- 07/24 : Up Into The Cherry Tree
- 07/22 : Liz (Betsy) Klein(top) aka Mom
- 06/24 : Storm clouds over Hammonton
- 06/20 : Camp Acagisca
- 06/12 : Hammonton Food Trucks
- 05/31 : Crows Woods in Haddonfield NJ
- 05/20 : Atlantic City Aquarium visit
- 05/10 : Mothers Day 2015 art project
- 03/26 : 1920s Quaker Youth Caravan
- 03/13 : Taxes then and now
- 03/12 : Are you an enthusiast?
- 03/10 : Remembering Juanita Nelson
2014 (10)
- 09/01 : Three-fort touring
2013 (42)
- 12/28 : The QuakerRanter Top-Five
- 12/26 : Peace on Earth from 1939
- 12/26 : Bono’s Christianity
- 11/25 : Nostalgia comes early
- 10/14 : Wikifying Our Blogging
- 09/29 : Rethinking Blogs
- 07/31 : Desert temptations
- 07/16 : Festival time in Hammonton
- 07/16 : Georges And Trayvons
- 07/16 : Retooling after Google Reader
- 06/24 : Summer project: making Goop!
- 06/18 : Colorful Quakers
- 06/13 : Trying out iOS 7
- 05/14 : A modern-day Commonplace Book?
- 03/04 : Story: The teapot that survived
- 02/05 : Nostra Maxima Culpa
- 01/16 : Tom Heiland
- 01/09 : Something afoot circa 2004
2012 (50)
- 11/26 : Make a buck, make a buck
- 11/19 : A social media snapshot
- 11/15 : Fifteen years of blogging
- 09/17 : Plain like Barack
- 09/04 : Cirque in A.C.
- 07/20 : Of violence and mental snaps
- 07/12 : “Nostromo” by Joseph Conrad
- 07/11 : In defense of worship spaces
- 07/09 : Torching Meetinghouses Ctd.
- 07/07 : Is dairy overrated?
- 05/29 : Interviewing Doug Bennett
- 05/15 : Must Facebook own everything?
- 05/06 : Laura on a day in May
- 04/09 : Outreach as Retention
- 03/04 : Syrup that Masks the Salt
- 02/26 : Another Saturday at St Nick’s
- 02/01 : An Atsion Walkabout
- 02/01 : Reblogging
- 01/23 : Laura’s first half day
2011 (124)
- 12/10 : This is pretty messed up
- 11/08 : A Friends Journal page on G+
- 11/08 : I thought I’d try an experiment
- 10/31 : Trick-or-Treat
- 07/24 : 7/24/11
- 07/12 : “Group 9 art!!!!” by Theo
- 07/12 : Mystery
- 07/11 : Hello again world
- 07/11 : Hello world.
- 07/11 : Doh!
- 07/10 : So here’s a G+ question
- 07/09 : One writer’s take on G+ via +N
- 07/09 : Profile Pics
- 07/08 : Update your atlases
- 07/08 : PicPlz being sold off
- 07/06 : Wow and now FB has video chat
- 07/05 : Hello WaveBuzzPlus
- 04/20 : Bible Illiterate No More
- 03/15 : Tract Association of Friends
- 02/23 : Places like St Mary’s
- 02/03 : Opening Doors and Moving on Up
- 02/02 : Gregory Gets Baptized
2010 (34)
- 12/15 : Catherine Lockwood MFT
- 12/04 : Unlikely Messengers
- 11/19 : Easy Prey
- 10/19 : Unpresenting workshop style
- 10/03 : That of God via William Penn
- 04/13 : Facebook consulting explained
- 04/12 : Quakermaps: DIY Friends FTW!
- 03/29 : ReconRabbi.net
- 03/29 : Bradley J Winkler LLC
- 03/03 : Blogging for the Kingdom
- 01/28 : Dusting off the Elders of Balby
- 01/19 : QuakerQuakers in the World
- 01/13 : Philadelphia Metropolis
- 01/09 : Remembering George Willoughby
2009 (44)
- 12/22 : Online Quaker classes
- 12/03 : Mike’s Precision Carpentry
- 11/03 : Gossip and ownward spirals
- 10/19 : The Limits of the Real Time Web
- 09/12 : FWCC Google Maps Mashup
- 08/26 : Hanging with the high schoolers
- 07/31 : Free as in Friend
- 07/28 : Cornerstone Fellowship
- 07/28 : Alliance Cemetery
- 05/30 : Quaker Quote of the Day
- 05/05 : Nonprofits and Social Media
- 04/22 : Torture for Ideology
- 03/25 : Haverford Friends Meeting
- 02/19 : Margaret Fell’s Red Dress
- 02/13 : Shifting permanence
- 01/28 : Web 2.0 and Friends Schools
- 01/03 : Advice to a new blogger
2008 (67)
- 12/15 : True confessions
- 11/25 : Friends Council Social Network
- 11/10 : Kindley Law
- 10/30 : Mindfulwalker.com
- 10/21 : Invisible Quaker Misfits
- 10/15 : Mixing Quakers and Politics?
- 10/08 : Same as it ever was
- 09/14 : The Not-Quite-So Young Quakers
- 09/11 : Reposting: Horror
- 09/04 : Holiness and Quakerism
- 08/06 : Theo and Francis play lifeguard
- 07/16 : The Andrew Walton Idiot Defense
- 07/07 : Conferences and videos
- 07/03 : Couch talk w/Martin & Theo
- 07/02 : The long life of 1950s sci-fi
- 07/01 : Superstar? Aw shucks!
- 06/28 : Bike ride to Pleasant Mills
- 05/31 : The bishop gets THAT LOOK
- 05/18 : Penncharter.com Media Pages
- 05/18 : Health E Retailers
- 05/06 : Save St Mary’s Malaga
- 05/06 : AmyOutlaw.com
- 05/05 : Doing it Twitter style
- 05/05 : Save St. Mary’s
- 04/26 : Floating on Clouds
- 03/28 : Woodstown Walkabout
- 03/25 : Nemos Aquarium
- 03/23 : Abandoned school?
- 03/12 : The scent of communal religion
- 02/22 : Finally, some real snow!
- 02/01 : Offers not refused
- 01/10 : Nick Watts, Piano Instructor
- 01/01 : But of course some photos.…
2007 (77)
- 12/03 : Sights around the house
- 11/28 : No pictures please
- 11/23 : Focused blogs and side trips
- 11/12 : Flowers and Friends
- 10/29 : An Autumnal Halloween
- 10/26 : Butterfly Love
- 10/25 : Site update
- 09/30 : The ascent of Apple Pie Hill
- 09/28 : Banking on reputations
- 09/06 : The Quaker time capsule
- 08/31 : Partytime prep
- 08/29 : Francis turns two
- 08/29 : Yummy eats en route to Ohio
- 08/29 : The Young Conservative
- 07/13 : Julie’s church in the news
- 06/28 : A Quaker model for emergence?
- 06/22 : SteadyFootsteps.org
- 06/19 : Lead-painted toys? Aye-Yeash!
- 06/14 : Some gratuitious family pics
- 06/06 : Tamspub.com
- 06/01 : I too can buy kid clothes!
- 05/30 : On shoestrings and keepin’ on
- 05/07 : Movable Type and RTL languages
- 05/02 : TV love songs
- 04/18 : GN-Nonviolence.org
- 04/16 : On pricing philosophy
- 04/09 : Hey who am I to decide anything
- 03/10 : Call off the search parties
- 03/09 : If I don’t make it back.…
- 02/12 : Pete Seeger gets YouTubed
- 01/22 : SEO Myths I: Analyze This
- 01/20 : Blogging for the Long Tail
- 01/20 : Stepping up to the challenge
- 01/16 : Warriors against the War
- 01/11 : Making the list
- 01/09 : QuakerQuaker Toolbar
- 01/05 : Betsy Cazden’s new site
- 01/05 : For every parent…
- 01/01 : Another milestone
2006 (39)
- 12/05 : Vacation from reality
- 10/13 : The new aggregators
- 10/05 : Teaching Quakerism again
- 09/02 : Munching on the wheat
- 09/01 : I am the King of Folksonomy
- 08/30 : Site redesign
- 08/22 : Making New Factions
- 08/11 : The Wonders of RSS feeds
- 08/10 : Forsaking Diplomacy
- 07/04 : Turning workshops into worship
- 06/23 : Heading out for Tacoma
- 05/18 : MaguireOnline.com
- 04/18 : Visiting a Quaker School
- 03/17 : Call for Tom Fox memorials
- 03/11 : A time of sadness and prayer
- 03/10 : Quakersong.org
2005 (67)
- 12/29 : Spying in times of terror
- 12/22 : Random updates
- 12/02 : It’s witness time
- 10/18 : Quaker Blog Watch by email
- 10/11 : Of Floods and Prophets
- 09/12 : Trip to the Blue Hole
- 07/01 : Strangers to the Covenant
- 06/21 : Excitement outside fgc
- 06/21 : Biodemocracy Protests
- 06/17 : The Early Blogging Days
- 06/16 : Aggregating our Webs
- 06/16 : Plain Quaker Nurse-In
- 06/01 : Deep Throat Gargles Up
- 05/26 : Quaker Map Hack
- 05/23 : Is it getting warmer in here?
- 05/02 : Net Sightings
- 04/20 : Let Your Lives Speak
- 04/18 : The Loss of a Faithful Servant
- 04/07 : James R: I Am What I Am
- 04/01 : Vision for an online magazine
- 03/22 : A Simple Testimony
- 03/16 : MoveOn at peace with War?
- 03/09 : Uh-Oh: Beppe’s Doubts
- 03/08 : Bulldozing the U.N.
- 03/05 : Lebanon and Syria
- 03/03 : On Dressing Plain
- 03/01 : Learning about Youth & Religion
- 02/25 : Quaker Ranter Reader
- 01/29 : FGC Gathering Workshop
2004 (73)
- 12/30 : Grief at the Asian Tragedies
- 12/06 : Seattle Five Years Later
- 11/23 : Selling Quakerism to The Kids
- 11/22 : New Pacifist Introductions
- 11/03 : All of Our Hands
- 10/15 : Quaker Testimonies
- 10/13 : FBI Cracking Down on Indymedia?
- 10/12 : Donation Appeal
- 10/02 : Vanity Googling of Causes
- 09/11 : Refusing to Get Political
- 09/08 : Vote for War (Or Else)
- 08/10 : Quakerism 101
- 08/09 : Quaker Youth Ministry
- 07/20 : War is Just Another Racket
- 07/03 : Plain Quaker Dressing at FGC
- 04/15 : War Tax Resistance overview
- 04/07 : Plain Dress – Some Reflections
- 03/25 : Yearly Meeting Blues
- 03/25 : Who Was Yassin?
- 03/11 : More Terror
- 03/05 : Sodium-Free Friends
- 02/12 : FGC on Quaker Religious Ed
- 02/12 : Walking the Walk
- 01/29 : Watergate Web-Style
- 01/14 : Quakers & Anabaptists
2003 (87)
- 12/31 : Arnold: Losing Our Religion
- 12/08 : Zunes on the Geneva Initiative
- 12/08 : Horses on a Trot?
- 12/07 : Google can’t be wrong
- 11/26 : Signs of Hope
- 11/21 : WRL Current Commentary
- 11/16 : Are Catholics More Quaker?
- 11/12 : Dead Horses
- 11/12 : Recycling Dead Horses
- 11/09 : What I Want For Christmas
- 10/29 : Shouting for Attention
- 10/28 : Attacks a sign of our success
- 10/27 : North by Northwest
- 10/17 : Peace and Twenty-Somethings
- 10/13 : Jesus goes Lo-Fi
- 09/30 : The Lost Quaker Generation
- 09/11 : Big Lies & Mass Hysteria
- 08/25 : Pacifism and the Congo Dilemma
- 08/22 : Insuring Violence Never ends
- 08/22 : Almost Famous
- 08/14 : Duck Rogers Gamma Ray Bombs
- 08/06 : Fifty-eight Years of WMDs
- 08/01 : “Voices” Confessions Ignored?
- 07/29 : Psychic Terror Network
- 07/29 : Betting on Terror
- 07/28 : Friends Media Project
- 07/28 : Lesson on Internet-time scoops
- 07/20 : Nonviolence.org syndicated
- 07/17 : Army of None
- 07/17 : Army of None
- 07/15 : “Darn Good Intelligence”
- 07/15 : The Bean Defense
- 07/13 : Twenty Lies About the War
- 07/02 : Shameless fundraising plug
- 06/21 : The Selling of the Iraq War
- 05/31 : War in the Congo
- 05/31 : The Peace Movement Between Wars
- 01/23 : Tough Time to Love War(Making)
2002 (3)
- 08/20 : My Experiments with Plainness
- 03/12 : Dick Cheney’s Rambo Complex
2001 (3)
- 07/30 : Resources on Quaker Plain Dress
2000 (1)
1999 (3)
- 05/27 : The Real Phantom Menace is Us
1998 (9)
- 12/19 : Why We Mourn and Protest
- 06/05 : Two More Nuclear Cowboys
1997 (6)
- 12/25 : Countdown to Millennium-ism
- 01/28 : Burnished Polaroids
1996 (2)
- 12/20 : 1996 Bookmarks
- 12/20 : Anna Maria’s Advice to Lovers
1995 (3)
- 08/06 : The Revolution will be Online
1992 (1)
- 06/29 : Food Not Bomb’s Publisher’s Note
Expanding our concepts of pacifism
October 17, 2013
My blogging pal Wess Daniels wrote a provocative piece this week called When Peace Preserves Violence. It’s a great read and blows some much-needed holes in the self-satisfaction so many of us carry with us. But I’d argue that there’s a part two needed that does a side-step back to the source…
Eric Moon wrote something that’s stuck with me in his June/July Friends Journal piece, “Categorically Not the Testimonies.” His article focuses on the way we’ve so codified the “Quaker Testimonies” that they’ve become ossified and taken for granted. One danger he sees in this is that we’ll not recognize clear leadings of conscience that don’t fit the modern-day mold.
Moon tells the anecdote of a Friend who “guiltily lament[ed] that he couldn’t attend protest marches because he was busy all day at a center for teens at risk for dropping out of school, a program he had established and invested his own savings in.” Here was a Friend doing real one-on-one work changing lives but feeling guilty because he couldn’t participate in the largely-symbolic act of standing on a street corner.
I don’t think that we need to give up the peace testimony to acknowledge the entanglement of our lives and the hypocrisy that lies all-too-shallowly below the surface of most of our lifestyles. What we need to do is rethink its boundaries.
A model for this is our much-quoted but much-ignored “Quaker saint” John Woolman. While a sense of the equality of humans is there in his journal as a source of his compassion, much of his argumentation against slavery is based in Friends by-then well-established testimony against war (yes, against war, not for peace). Slavery is indeed a state of war and it is on so many levels – from the individuals treating each other horribly, to societal norms constructed to make this seem normal, to the economies of nation states built on the trade.
Woolman’s conceptual leap was to say that the peace testimony applied to slavery. If we as Friends don’t participate in war, then we similarly can’t participate in the slave trade or enjoy the ill-gotten fruits of that trade – the war profit of cottons, dyes, rum, etc.
Today, what else is war? I think we have it harder than Woolman. In the seventeenth century a high percentage of one’s consumables came from a tight geographic radius. You were likely to know the labor that produced it. Now almost nothing comes locally. If it’s cheaper to grow garlic in China and ship it halfway around the world than it is to pay local farmers, then our local grocer will sell Chinese garlic (mine does). Books and magazines are supplanted by electronics built in locked-down Far Eastern sweatshops.
But I think we can find ways to disengage. It’s a never-ending process but we can take steps and support others taking steps. We’ve gotten it stuck in our imagination that war is a protest sign outside Dunkin Donuts. What about those tutoring programs? What about reducing our clothing consumptions and finding ways to reduce natural resource consumption (best done by limiting ourselves to lifestyles that cause us to need less resources).
And Yoder? Wess is disheartened by the sexual misconduct of Mennonite pacifist John Howard Yoder (short story: he regularly groped and sexually pressured women). But what of him? Of course he’s a failure. In a way, that’s the point, even the plan: human heroes will fail us. Cocks will crow and will we stay silent (why the denomination kept it hush-hush for 15 years after his death is another whole WTF, of course). But why do I call it the plan? Because we need to be taught to rely first and second and always on the Spirit of Jesus. George Fox figured that out:
And when all my hopes in them and in all men were gone, so that I had nothing outwardly to help me, nor could I tell what to do; then, oh! then I heard a voice which said, ‘There is one, even Christ Jesus, that can speak to thy condition’: and when I heard it, my heart did leap for joy. …and this I knew experimentally. My desires after the Lord grew stronger, and zeal in the pure knowledge of God, and of Christ alone, without the help of any man, book, or writing.
If young Fox had found a human hero that actually walked the talk, he might have short-circuited the search for Jesus. He needed to experience the disheartened failure of human knowledge to be low enough to be ready for his great spiritual opening.
We all use identity to prop ourselves up and isolate ourselves from critique. I think that’s just part of the human condition. The path toward the divine is not one of retrenchment or disavowal, but rather focus on that one who might even now be preparing us for new light on the conditions of the human condition and church universal.
A traveling bus museum visits Quakerranter HQ
November 8, 2010
This weekend we’ve had a museum parked in our driveway. It’s the “BUS-eum” from the Traces Center for History and Culture in St. Paul, hosting a traveling exhibit on German POW’s in the US during World War II. We were happy to host the BUS-eum’s Irving Kellman over the weekend in-between stops in Cape May Courthouse and Vineland. I asked him to give us the story of the German POWs on video.
As you might guess, there was a lot of Quaker connections in the 1940, with American Friends Service Committee involvement. Traces’ director Michael Luick-Thrams is a Friend and did his PhD thesis on the Scattergood Hostel, a refugee camp set up at the then-abandoned Friends school in Iowa. Many of the BUS-eum’s stops are Friends Schools, with public libraries being another common destination.
The visit was made with help from FGC’s Directory of Traveling Friends. I think this is the first time we’ve actually had a visitor after a decade of being listed there (most past inquiries have fallen through when they looked at a map and realized our distance from Pendle Hill, New York City or whatever other destination brought them east).
Free as in Friend
July 31, 2009
In Chris Anderson’s new book Free: The Future of a Radical Price, he looks into the meaning of the word free. The word has two meanings: free as in “freedom” and free as in “price.” Most of the romance languages divide these meanings into two different words, derived from liber and gratiis. Our double-duty English word comes from Old English freon or freogan, meaning “to free, love.” In addition to free, this word also gave us our word friend. Anderson quotes etymologist Douglas Harper:
The primary sense seems to have been “beloved, friend”; which in some languages (notably Germanic and Celtic) developed a sense of “free,” perhaps from the terms “beloved” or “friend” being applied to the free members of one’s clan (as opposed to slaves). (P. 18)
This double-meaning of beloved and free made friend the perfect word for the early translators of the English bible when they got to John 15, where Jesus says:
Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what
his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I
have heard of my Father I have made known unto you. Ye have not
chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go
and bring forth fruit, and [that] your fruit should remain: that
whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you. These things I command you, that ye love one another.
This was a favorite verse of a bunch of spiritual trouble-makers in England in mid-1600s, who liked it so much they started calling one another Friends. They were a new brother- and sister-hood of beloveds, newly freed of the tyrants of their age by their personal experience of Christ as friend, spreading the good news that we were all free and all commanded to love one another.
Margaret Fell’s Red Dress
February 19, 2009
I wrote this in Eighth Month 2004 for the Plainandmodestdress discussion group back when the red dress MacGuffin made it’s appearance on that board.
I wonder if it’s not a good time for the Margaret Fell story. She was one of the most important founders of the Quaker movement, a feisty, outspoken, hardworking and politically powerful early Friend who later married George Fox.
The story goes that one day Margaret wore a red dress to Meeting. Another Friend complained that it was gaudy. She shot back in a letter that it was a “silly poor gospel” to question her dress. In my branch of Friends, this story is endlessly repeated out of context to prove that “plain dress” isn’t really Quaker. (I haven’t looked up to see if I have the actual details correct – I’m telling the apocryphal version of this tale.)
Before declaring her Friend’s complaint “silly poor gospel” Margaret explains that Friends have set up monthly, quarterly and yearly meeting structures in order to discipline those walking out of line of the truth. She follows it by saying that we should be “covered with God’s eternal Spirit, and clothed with his eternal Light.”
It seems really clear here that Margaret is using this exchange as a teaching opportunity to demonstrate the process of gospel order. Individuals are charged with trying to follow Christ’s commands, and we should expect that these might lead to all sorts of seemingly-odd appearances (even red dresses!). What matters is NOT the outward form of plain dress, but the inward spiritual obedience that it (hopefully!) mirrors. Gospel order says it’s the Meeting’s role to double-guess individuals and labor with them and discipline them if need be. Individuals enforcing a dress code of conformity with snarky comments after meeting is legalism – it’s not gospel order and not proper Quaker process (I would argue it’s a variant of “detraction”).
This concern over legalism is something that is distinctly Quaker. Other faiths are fine with written down, clearly-articulated outward forms. Look at creeds for example: it’s considered fine for everyone to repeat a set phrasing of belief, even though we might know or suspect that not everyone in church is signing off on all the parts in it as they mutter along. Quakers are really sticklers on this and so avoid creeds altogether. In worship, you should only give ministry if you are actively moved of the Lord to deliver it and great care should be given that you don’t “outrun your Guide” or add unnecessary rhetorical flourishes.
This Plain and Modest Dress discussion group is meant for people of all sorts of religious backgrounds of course. It might be interesting some time to talk about the different assumptions and rationales each of our religious traditions bring to the plain dress question. I think this anti-legalism that would distinguish Friends.
For Friends, I don’t think the point is that we should have a formal list of acceptable colors – we shouldn’t get too obsessed over the “red or not red” question. I don’t suspect Margaret would want us spending too much time working out details of a standard pan-Quaker uniform. “Legalism” is a silly poor gospel for Friends. There’s a great people to be gathered and a lot of work to do. The plainness within is the fruit of our devotion and it can certainly shine through any outward color or fashion!
If I lived to see the day when all the Quakers were dressing alike and gossiping about how others were led to clothe themselves, I’d break out a red dress too! But then, come to think about it, I DO live in a Quaker world where there’s WAY TOO MUCH conformity in thought and dress and where there’s WAY TOO MUCH idle gossip when someone adopts plain dress. Where I live, suspenders and broadfalls might as well be a red dress!
What Convergence means to Ohio Conservative
August 8, 2007
Robin M’s recent post on a Convergent Friends definition has garnered a number of fascinating commenters. The latest comes from Scott Savage, a well-known Conservative Friend (author of A Plain Life, publisher of the defunct Plain Magazine and lightening rod for a recent culture war skirmish over homosexuality at Ohio State University). Savage’s comment on Robin’s blog follows what we could call the “Cranky Conservative” template: gratuitous swipes at Conservatives in Iowa and North Carolina, wholesale dismissal of other Friends, multiple affirmations of Christ, digs at the issue of homosexuality, a recitation of past failures of cross-branch communication, then a shrug that seems to ask why he should stoop to our level for dialogue.
Snore.
What makes my sleepy response especially strange is that except for the homosexuality issue (yay for FLGBTQC!), I’m pretty close to Scott’s positions. I worry about the liberalization of Conservative Friends, I get cranky about Christian Friends who deny Christ in public, and I think a lot of Friends are missing the boat on some core essentials. When I open my copy of Ohio’s 1968 discipline and read its statement of faith (oops, sorry, “Introduction”), I nod my head. As far as I’m aware I’m in unity with all of Ohio Conservative’s principles of faith and practice and if I signed up for their distance membership I certainly wouldn’t be the most liberal member of the yearly meeting.
I’m actually not sure about Scott’s yearly meeting membership; I’m simply answering his question of why he and the other Conservatives who hold a strong concern for “the hedge” (a separation of Conservative Friends from other branches) might want to think about Convergence. Of all the remaining Conservative bodies, the hedge is arguably strongest in Ohio Yearly Meeting and while parts of this apply to Conservatives elsewhere — Iowa, North Carolina and individuals embedded in non-Conservative yearly meetings — the snares and opportunities are different for them than they are for Ohioans.
Why Ohio Conservative should engage with Convergence:
- If you have all the answers and don’t mind keeping them hidden under the nearest bushel then Convergence means nothing.
- But if you’re interested in following Jesus and being a fisher of men and women by sharing the good news… Well, then it’s useful to learn that there’s a growing movement of Friends from outside Conservative circles (however defined) who are sensing there’s something missing and looking to traditional Quakerism for answers.
Ohio Conservatives have answers and this Convergence movement is providing a fresh opportunity to share them with the apostate Friends and with Christians in other denominations seeking out a more authentic relationship with Christ. Engaging with Convergence doesn’t mean Ohio Friends have to change anything of their faith or practice and it needn’t be about “dialogue”: simply sharing the truth as you understand it is ministry.
Yes, there are snares involved in any true gospel ministry; striking the right balance is always difficult. As the carpenter said, “narrow is the way which leadeth unto life”. We are beset on all sides by roadblocks that threaten to lead us away from Christ’s leadership. Ohio Friends will need to be on guard that ministers don’t succumb to the temptation to water down their theology for any fleeting popularity. This is a real danger and it frequently occurs but while I could tell eight years of great insider stories from the halls of Philadelphia, is that what we’re here to do?
Let me put my cards on the table: I don’t see much of Ohio effectively ministering now. There’s too much of a kind of pride that borders on obnoxiousness, that loves endlessly reciting why Iowa and North Carolina aren’t Conservative and why no other Friends are Friends, blah blah blah. It can get tiresome and legalistic. I could point to plenty of online forums where it crosses the line into detraction. Charity and love are Christian qualities too. Humility and a sense of humor are compatible with traditional Quakerism. How do we find a way to continue safeguarding Ohio’s pearls while sharing them widely with the world. There are Ohio Friends doing this and while I differ with Scott Savage on some social issues I consider tangential (and he probably doesn’t), I very much appreciate his hard work advancing the understanding of Quakerism and agree on more than I disagree.
But how do we find a way to be both Conservative and Evangelical? To marry Truth with Love? To not only understand the truth but to know how, when and where to share it? I think Convergence can help Ohio think about delivery of Truth and it can help bring seekers into the doors. When I rhetorically asked last month what Convergent Friends might be converging toward, the first answer that popped in my head was Ohio Friends with a sense of humor. I’m not sure it’s the most accurate definition but it reveals my own sympathies and I find it tempting to think about what that would look like (hint: kraken might be involved).
A reminder to everyone that I’ll be at Ohio Yearly Meeting Conservative sessions in a few weeks to talk more about the opportunities for Ohio engagement with Convergence. Come round if you’re in the area.
Also check out Robin’s own response to Scott, up there on her own blog. It’s a moving personal testimony to the power and joy of cross-Quaker fellowship and the spiritual growth that can result.
Reading John Woolman 2: The Last Safe Quaker
August 10, 2006
Reading John Woolman Series:
1: The Public Life of a Private Man
2: The Last Safe Quaker
3: The Isolated Saint
Someone who only knew Woolman from articles in popular Quaker periodicals might be forgiven for a moment of shock when opening his book. John Woolman is so much more religious than we usually acknowledge. We describe him as an activist even though he and his contemporaries clearly saw and named him a minister. There are many instances where he described the inhumanity of the slave trade and he clearly identified with the oppressed but he almost always did so with from a Biblical perspective. He acknowledged that religious faithfulness could exist outside his beloved Society of Friends but his life’s work was calling Friends to live a profoundly Christian life. Flip to a random page of the journal and you’ll probably count half a dozen metaphors for God. Yes, he was a social activist but he was also a deeply religious minister of the gospel.
So why do we wrap ourselves up in Woolman like he’s the flag of proto-liberal Quakerism? In an culture where Quaker authority is deeply distrusted and appeals to the Bible or to Quaker history are routinely dismissed, he has become the last safe Friend to claim. His name is invoked as a sort of talisman against critique, as a rhetorical show-stopper. “If you don’t agree with my take on the environment/tax resistance/universalism, you’re the moral equivalent of Woolman’s slave holders.” (Before the emails start flooding in, remember I’m writing this as a dues-paying activist Quaker myself.) We don’t need to agree with him to engage with him and learn from him. But we do need to be honest about what he believed and open to admitting when we disagree. We shouldn’t use him simply as a stooge for our own agenda.
I like Woolman but I have my disagreements. His scrupulousness was over the top. My own personality tends toward a certain purity, exemplified by fifteen years of veganism, my plain dress, my being car-less into my late thirties. I’ve learned that I need to moderate this tendency. My purity can sometimes be a sign of an elitism that wants to separate myself from the world (I’ve learned to laugh at myself more). Asceticism can be a powerful spiritual lens but it can also burn a self- and world-hatred into us. I’ve had friends on the brink of suicide (literally) over this kind of scrupulousness. I worry when a new Friend finds my plain pages and is in broadfalls and bonnets a few weeks later, knowing from my own experience that the speed of their gusto sometimes rushes a discernment practice that needs to rest and settle before it is fully owned (the most personally challenging of the traditional tests of Quaker discernment is “patience”).
John Woolman presents an awfully high bar for future generations. He reports refusing medicine when illness brought him to the brink of death, preferring to see fevers as signs of God’s will. While that might have been the smarter course in an pre-hygienic era when doctors often did more harm than good, this Christian Scientist-like attitude is not one I can endorse. He sailed to England deep in the hold along with the cattle because he thought the woodwork unnecessarily pretty in the passenger cabins. While his famous wearing of un-dyed garments was rooted partly in the outrages of the manufacturing process, he talked much more eloquently about the inherent evil of wearing clothes that might hide stains, arguing that anyone who would try to hide stains on their clothes would be that much more likely to hide their internal spiritual stains (all I could think about when reading this was that he must have left child-rearing duties to the well-inclined Sarah).
Woolman proudly relates (in his famously humble style) how he once tried to shut down a traveling magic act that was scheduled to play at the local inn. I suspect that if any of us somehow found ourselves on his clearness committee we might find a way to tell him to… well, lighten up. I sympathize with his concerns against mindless entertainment but telling the good people of Mount Holly that they can’t see a disappearing rabbit act because of his religious sensibilities is more Taliban than most of us would feel comfortable with.
He was a man of his times and that’s okay. We can take him for what he is. We shouldn’t dismiss any of his opinions too lightly for he really was a great religious and ethical figure. But we might think twice before enlisting the party pooper of Mount Holly for our cause.