Cropwell Opens its Doors Again — Cropwell Quakers

October 20, 2026

On Sun­day my meet­ing host­ed an open house to rein­tro­duce our­selves to our neigh­bors. Although the meet­ing has grown from five years ago — when only two peo­ple reg­u­lar­ly showed up at wor­ship — like all social bod­ies, we con­tin­ue to have ups and downs. A few ill­ness­es have drawn reg­u­lars away. I’m con­vinced that regrow­ing a meet­ing is a 10-year project, at least.

How Do We Talk About Quaker Worship? Balancing Belief and Practice

October 14, 2026

I talked with Jack Tripp, who teach­es ninth and eleventh grade Eng­lish at the same Quak­er school he him­self attend­ed a decade or so ago. With a reli­gious tra­di­tion as fierce­ly anti-creedal as ours — and one that has mor­phed and evolved into var­i­ous con­tra­dic­to­ry forms — how do we describe our­selves? The prob­lem is height­ened in a Quak­er school set­tings, where only a frac­tion of stu­dents will be Quak­er them­selves. Jack­’s arti­cle, Toward a Quak­er Pedi­gree, is in the online edi­tion of this mon­th’s Friends Jour­nal.

Show notes and transcript

Also, I don’t think I ever shared last mon­th’s Quak­er Talk pod­cast inter­view with Michelle Downey, “How a Quak­er Meet­ing Wel­comes Mil­i­tary Fam­i­lies.” I also wrote the intro­duc­tion to the Octo­ber issue, “Restor­ing Our Parts of the World.”

Turning Weapons into Peace: My Interview with Scotty Utz

September 14, 2026

I inter­viewed Sep­tem­ber FJ author Scot­ty Utz about Guns-to-Garden Move­ment. Fas­ci­nat­ing wit­ness and some heart­break­ing sto­ries. From my intro:

One of the most pro­found and oft quot­ed state­ments from prob­a­bly the entire Bible is from Isa­iah, and it goes And he shall judge among the nations, and shall rebuke many peo­ple, and they shall beat their swords into plough shares, and their spears into prun­ing hooks. Nations shall not lift up sword against nation, nei­ther shall they learn war any more. And this may seem like a won­der­ful lyri­cal kind of state­ment. But what if we actu­al­ly took it seri­ous­ly and actu­al­ly start­ed tak­ing our instru­ments of war and turn­ing them into prun­ing hooks?

Full show notes and tran­scrip­tions here.

“Creationtide” and the Seasons of the Church and Earth

September 6, 2026

A beau­ti­ful med­i­ta­tion by Bri­an Dray­ton on Quak­ers soft­en­ing on the ideas of times and sea­sons and how he (and I sus­pect many oth­er Friends) have come to more ful­ly embrace the sea­sons of both the wider Chris­t­ian Church and also the nat­ur­al sea­sons of the earth and cosmos.

Be Ready to Answer the Phone

August 20, 2026

Thoughts on the sur­prise Tru­itt fam­i­ly vis­it yes­ter­day, because I know Quak­ers can be real­ly real­ly bad at this… Make sure you have a web­site that lists a phone num­ber that rings through to a real per­son in real time. One that also lists an email that will be prompt­ly read and answered. This event came togeth­er pret­ty fast. From the first phone call from town­ship offi­cial Sta­cy Webb late Tues­day after­noon to my unlock­ing the meet­ing­house doors was about 24 hours.

I was on a video call when Stacy’s first call came in so I had to let it go to voice­mail. So also have voice­mail set up. After my pre­vi­ous call end­ed I was able to reply to Sta­cy’s email and then fol­lowup with a quick call to con­firm details. This was one less detail she had to wor­ry about in an event with lots of mov­ing parts. (In addi­tion to a half dozen Tru­itt fam­i­ly mem­bers we had the may­or, deputy may­or, town­ship man­ag­er, a police liai­son, and a com­mu­ni­ca­tions staffer with a cam­era. That’s a lot of peo­ple to coor­di­nate.) In a lull in the event, Sta­cy told me it was great that she find and reach some­one at Crop­well Meet­ing so easily.

I know com­mu­ni­ca­tion can be hard but we need to be acces­si­ble. I’ve been ghost­ed SO MANY TIMES when try­ing to call or email Quak­er meet­ings. And it’s not just the small ones that don’t get back to me. Some­times meet­ings with paid office staff also don’t return mes­sages. Crop­well uses a Google Voice num­ber to for­ward phone calls to my per­son­al cell and emails also auto­mat­i­cal­ly for­ward to me. It’s not over­whelm­ing, not in the least — I let things for­ward to voice­mail when I need to and I have ringers turned off at night. But because Crop­well set this up even before I became involved, I’ve been able to respond to inquiries quick­ly, once even as I was dri­ving to meet­ing on Sun­day morn­ing (don’t wor­ry, I pulled over). Peo­ple already think we’re extinct. Don’t give them more rea­sons to think that’s true.

Truitt Family Visits Meeting

August 20, 2026

I had a won­der­ful time play­ing host for a vis­it by an old Crop­well Meet­ing fam­i­ly that was vis­it­ing the area this week. The Tru­itts were a free Black fam­i­ly in Delaware who joined self-emancipating enslaved peo­ple in that state and on Mary­land’s East­ern Shore to set­tle among South Jer­sey Quak­ers in the ear­ly 1800s. The high­light was def­i­nite­ly 103 year old Mar­garet Adele McGee, who told sto­ries of wor­ship­ing at Crop­well in the 1920s!

Philosophers Rediscovering Plainness and Integrity in an Always-Online World

August 12, 2026

I love it when cul­tur­al essay­ists redis­cov­er a core Quak­er obser­va­tion about plain­ness and human nature and give it a new name. Remem­ber a few that’s ago when “norm­core” became a thing?

Now we have “uni-context,” the idea that our online social lives bleed into all of our dif­fer­ent net­works (think: friends, work col­leagues, roman­tic inter­ests) so much that the net­works have been flat­tened; the “con­text” has “col­lapsed” (there’s a whole Wikipedia post on this). The refine­ment of this idea into “uni-context” comes from Agnes Callard, a UChica­go prof. Where once we could show dif­fer­ent faces to dif­fer­ent audi­ences, now every­one sees all.

First off, I’m not sure I real­ly buy it from a cul­tur­al tech per­spec­tive. The orig­i­nal Face­book ide­al of wide social graphs and pub­lic accounts feels like a dinosaur. I picked up this arti­cle from Jason Kot­tke, who notes that “blogs have glob­al con­text.” Twen­ty years ago, yes, many of us were liv­ing very pub­lic online lives — or at least made an image of our­selves that was very acces­si­ble on blogs and in net­works like the OG image-sharing net­work Flickr, which default­ed to pub­lic access. 

I don’t think that’s the case any­more. Gen Z is most­ly absent from pub­lic spaces like Face­book and usu­al­ly keeps pret­ty locked-down accounts. The app that has come to define the 2020s is Tik­Tok (and its clones), which is a high­ly per­for­ma­tive space where most of us con­sume, not cre­ate. I had a great after-meeting talk with two younger Quak­ers this week­end about out­reach. Most of their dis­cus­sions hap­pen on var­i­ous Dis­cords, net­works so pri­vate you gen­er­al­ly can’t even find out about par­tic­u­lar “serv­er” except through word of mouth. When I asked them how inter­est­ed seek­ers were sup­posed to find local Friends if every­thing was locked down on pri­vate net­works, one of them sug­gest­ed there should be an email list. I’m glad I was­n’t drink­ing any cof­fee at that moment because I would have had a real-life spit take. My first Quak­er orga­niz­ing thir­ty years ago was putting togeth­er an email con­tact list first for YAFs in my area and then world­wide because I did­n’t see any­one else doing it. Back then local YAF net­works were invis­i­ble to out­siders because the web as we know it bare­ly exist­ed. One could argue that GenZ has rein­vent­ed the pri­va­cy but also invis­i­bil­i­ty of the 1990s.

But grant­i­ng the “uni-context” con­ceit for argu­ment, this is a big post of Quak­er plain­ness. Yes there were most­ly unwrit­ten rules but if you open up an old copy of one of the *Books of Dis­ci­pline* and turn to the plain­ness sec­tion, you’ll find that it focus­es on inten­tion. My favorite query asks if you dress in a way “cal­cu­lat­ed to please a vain and wan­ton mind.”

It is the Quak­er con­cept of *intregri­ty* at play. Going back to root mean­ings, some­thing that is inte­gral can­not be bro­ken into pieces with­out los­ing its iden­ti­ty. We should act and present our­selves in the same way in all con­text. Who we are should be who we are, whether at work, play, church, etc. Sim­i­lar­ly our *yeas* should be *yeas* and our *nays* *nays* in all con­text so that we don’t need a spe­cial incan­ta­tion of swear­ing to tell the absolute truth. 

Of course our lives are com­plex. I’m a run­ner and I put on run­ning gear when I go out, espe­cial­ly in the August heat. But I’m not doing that for a cal­cu­lat­ed rea­son but a prac­ti­cal one. And I often have a pre-run run­ning shirt on when I log into a work Zoom call. 

Any­way it’s sort of sad that so many Friends have con­signed old Quak­er prac­tices to the dust heap. The ethics, if not the details, might be some­thing philoso­phers are seek­ing today.