Being Ready for the Seekers

June 5, 2025

I wrote the intro­duc­to­ry col­umn for the June/July issue of Friends Jour­nal, which is devot­ed to revivals.

It’s my pet the­o­ry that Quak­erism is always dying and simul­ta­ne­ous­ly always being reborn. It’s been a messy process with lots of hurt feel­ings. Many peo­ple have left Friends, and there are a bewil­der­ing num­ber of insti­tu­tion­al schisms still divid­ing us. But to para­phrase Mark Twain, the rumors of our death have been great­ly exaggerated.

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Margaret Fell Quaker

May 2, 2025

In the past cou­ple of of months I’ve noticed var­i­ous Friends using this image of Mar­garet Fox as a stand-in for Mar­garet Fell, the so-called “moth­er” of Quak­erism who lat­er mar­ried George Fox. Unfor­tu­nate­ly it’s a few cen­turies late. This pic­ture is Mar­garet Fox of Hydesville, N.Y. It’s from an 1885 book called The Miss­ing Link in Mod­ern Spir­i­tu­al­ism, in which she and her fam­i­ly describe their haunt­ed house. Their three daugh­ters, Mar­garet­ta, Kate, and Leah, became known as the Fox Sis­ters, and became the most famous trio in nineteenth-century Spir­i­tu­al­ism. In lat­er years Mar­garet­ta admit­ted the haunt­ings were hoax­es, alas.

There is a Quak­er con­nec­tion, as the sis­ters helped con­vince lead­ing rad­i­cal Hick­sites Amy and Isaac Post to adopt Spir­i­tu­al­ism and start com­muning with the dead. Issac lat­er wrote “spir­it writ­ings” under the bylines of peo­ple like George Fox and Ben­jamin Franklin.1 It would be super easy to make fun of the Posts but they also opened their home as an Under­ground Rail­road stop and were per­son­al friends of William Lloyd Gar­ri­son, Susan B. Antho­ny, Sojourn­er Truth, and Fred­er­ick Dou­glass (who they helped escape to Cana­da after he was impli­cat­ed in the John Brown raid at Harper’s Fer­ry). They were lead­ing fig­ures in what became known as the Pro­gres­sive Friends move­ment, whose ener­gy is still pal­pa­ble in Lib­er­al Quak­er circles.

The inter­net being what it is, there are plen­ty of web­sites that have tak­en this out of con­text and pre­sent­ed it as Mar­garet Fell Fox. Unfor­tu­nate­ly there are no con­tem­po­rary images of Mar­garet Fell. The best we have is a twentieth-century rep­re­sen­ta­tion of her by Robert Spence, who over thir­ty years made a num­ber of charm­ing line draw­ings of the life of George Fox (Friends Jour­nal used one for an illus­tra­tion in a recent arti­cle).

I am writ­ing this post sim­ply to show up in future search results. If I can pre­vent one per­son from mis­tak­en­ly using this image as an illus­tra­tion or basis for a piece of art then it will have been worth it.

Also, FYI, this is what por­traits looked like in Mar­garet Fel­l’s time:

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How do we use money?

January 2, 2025

The newest Friends Jour­nal issue is out, look­ing at how we use mon­ey. It’s per­haps not the sex­i­est top­ic but it speaks to what we val­ue as a body of believ­ers. Are we focused on our inter­nal group or on the world out­side our walls? Some­times the dis­cus­sions around mon­ey are tedious and our deci­sions self-evident. I think it’s pos­si­ble for a meet­ing to spend too much time focused on its own self-management. But there are times when dis­cus­sions of resource use brings out sur­pris­ing inspiration.

First up in our fea­tures is Joann Neu­roth’s “Putting Our Mon­ey Where Our Hearts Are,” a look at how her meet­ing in Lans­ing, Michi­gan, took seem­ing­ly tiny steps that have grown into sig­nifi­ant com­mu­ni­ty out­reach and investment.

When we catch our breath to add it all up, we real­ize that the vol­un­teers who “feed the pantry” dai­ly have put $11,000 of food in that box each year. It feels a bit like loaves and fish­es! Where did it come from, one gro­cery bag at a time? We are pret­ty sure any­one propos­ing an $11,000 pro­gram back in 2020 would have been quick­ly set straight about lim­its to our capac­i­ty. But one can of soup at a time, we have tru­ly sur­prised ourselves.

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What is and isn’t Quaker, hunting edition

August 14, 2023

On the face of it, it may be kind of weird for a veg­an like me to like an arti­cle about hunt­ing (much less pub­lish a recipe for squir­rel quiche) but any­one who brings in Thomas Clark­son to talk about Quak­er cul­tur­al val­ues is some­one I’ll lis­ten to.

[Clark­son’s] con­tem­po­raries were blind­ed by tra­di­tion and nev­er stopped to ask, “how far are they allow­able?” amidst con­cerns of human con­duct. Even the phras­ing “how far are they allow­able” sug­gests a lim­it. Per­haps hunt­ing is an allow­able and accept­able way of life up to a cer­tain point: that point being need­less vio­lence and danger.

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Retro Quaker Vocal Ministry Flowchart

June 16, 2022
“Speaking into the Silence” from the August 1991 Friends Journal.
“Speak­ing into the Silence” from the August 1991 Friends Journal.

Peo­ple have been com­ment­ing a lot on this chart Friends Jour­nal shared on social media last week. Orig­i­nal­ly pub­lished in the August 1991 issue, what I love most about it is its 1990s-era flow­chart design. What would it be today — some punchy info­graph­ic per­haps? We dove into the archives because this mon­th’s issue is all about Quak­er vocal min­istry and at least two of the fea­ture arti­cles men­tion these kinds of charts.

From Paul Buck­ley:

There is a fre­quent­ly repro­duced dia­gram that graph­i­cal­ly guides poten­tial speak­ers through a series of ques­tions they are to con­sid­er when they feel an urge to rise and speak. These exam­ine whether a poten­tial mes­sage is divine­ly inspired; whether it is intend­ed for the speak­er alone or for oth­ers present; and whether this is the right time and place to deliv­er it. These resources are all use­ful, but they only address one half of the act of vocal min­istry: one that is, by far, the small­er and per­haps less impor­tant por­tion. The oth­er part is the min­istry of lis­ten­ing, and we are all called to be lis­ten­ing ministers.

From Edna Whit­ti­er:

Since the begin­ning of the Reli­gious Soci­ety of Friends, writ­ten advices have guid­ed Friends. Year­ly meet­ings’ faith and prac­tice books, Pen­dle Hill pam­phlets on vocal min­istry, and indi­vid­ual month­ly meet­ings’ “Wel­come to Quak­er Wor­ship” hand­outs have guide­lines for speak­ing or not speak­ing in meet­ing for wor­ship. In 2019, Friends Gen­er­al Con­fer­ence even pub­lished a poster of a cir­cle flow chart with guide­lines for deliv­er­ing a mes­sage dur­ing worship.

This ver­sion is below. Yes, it is very 2020’s info­graph­i­cal in design! (PDF; a sim­i­lar ver­sion was pro­duced for a Pen­dle Hill pam­phlet by FGC staff Bar­ry Cross­no and Brent Bill, PDF).

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But I link to the arti­cles because these kinds of when-to-speak kind of charts can always become prob­lem­at­ic. As Bet­sy Caz­den replied on Twit­ter: “The peo­ple who need it least will spend the full hour obsess­ing about the flow-chart and will nev­er speak. The peo­ple who need it most nev­er will.” Just a few weeks ago I was sit­ting on a bench in Crop­well (N.J.) Meet­ing test­ing and retest­ing my moti­va­tions and lead­ings to rise and give min­istry. I gave a final breath to stand up when I heard the “good morn­ing Friends” fol­lowed by the sounds of hands slap­ping on hands in rise-of-meeting hand­shakes. Over the years I have learned not spend my whole hour obsess­ing but had not real­ized this meet­ing’s wor­ship was only 45 minutes!

Fur­ther read­ing: An Expect­ed Mir­a­cle, a 2023 post about the (often unnec­es­sary) pres­sures of Quak­er ministry.


Updating as I find more

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Chest­nut Hill Meet­ing in Philadel­phia, Pa., cir­ca 2014.
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West­min­ster Meet­ing, in Lon­don, which in turn got it from a 2015 book by Zélie Gross, With a Ten­der Hand.

What is a Quaker Book of Faith and Practice?

June 20, 2019

Thomas Hamm is one of the most lit­er­ary Quak­er­S­peak inter­vie­wees — you could prob­a­bly take his raw tran­script and pub­lish it as a Friends Jour­nal arti­cle. But it’s good to have a YouTube-accessible expla­na­tion of one of the only for­mal com­pendi­ums of belief and prac­tices that we creed-adverse Friends pro­duce. It’s also fas­ci­nat­ing to learn how the pur­pose and struc­ture of Faith and Prac­tice has dif­fered over time, geog­ra­phy, and theology.

What do Quak­ers believe? How do we prac­tice our faith? The best place to look for the answers might be in a book of faith and prac­tice. Here’s what they are and how they evolved over time.

http://​quak​er​s​peak​.com/​w​h​a​t​-​i​s​-​a​-​q​u​a​k​e​r​-​b​o​o​k​-​o​f​-​f​a​i​t​h​-​a​n​d​-​p​r​a​c​t​i​ce/

Half forgotten Philadelhpia Quaker cemetery at center of development controversy

May 2, 2019

As report­ed in the Philadel­phia Inquirer:

How many skele­tons might remain buried? Pos­si­bly thou­sands, accord­ing to archae­ol­o­gists, but no one knows. His­tor­i­cal maps are unclear on the ceme­ter­ies’ bound­aries, but numer­ous his­to­ries por­tray the grounds as used first by Quak­ers and then by the poor, whose num­bers increased along with the size of the city. 

They quote the Philadel­phia Year­ly Meet­ing gen­er­al sec­re­tary, who had heard noth­ing about this. The arti­cle also cites a 1880s arti­cle in Friends Intel­li­gencer, the pre­de­ces­sor to Friends Jour­nal.

https://​www​.philly​.com/​a​r​t​s​/​s​c​h​u​y​l​k​i​l​l​-​y​a​r​d​s​-​q​u​a​k​e​r​-​c​e​m​e​t​e​r​i​e​s​-​p​h​i​l​a​d​e​l​p​h​i​a​-​h​i​s​t​o​r​y​-​b​r​a​n​d​y​w​i​n​e​-​d​r​e​x​e​l​-​2​0​1​9​0​5​0​2​.​h​tml