Some of the articles are historical fiction, two look at Quaker process and spirituality, and there’s a semi-futuristic bit of satire. We can really be a creative bunch.
One of those is a new podcast from Friends Journal called Quakers Today. Produced by the most excellent Peterson Toscano, it’s a monthly podcast that will feature a mix of Friends Journal articles and QuakerSpeak interviews — and whatever else we put in there. Peterson’s been doing podcasts since forever ago (he started back when we would describe our informal blog networks as “the Quaker Blogosphere” with no hint of irony) and he brings a great energy to the show. It’s fun watching Friends Journal blossom in this new medium.
Those with long memories will remember that Friends Journal had a podcast series that ran for three years starting in 2013, consisting of authors reading their stories and the audio to our YouTube author chats. It was fun (I loved the poetry readings like this one), but it never got many listeners and we finally ended it in 2016 to give more focus to our core work.
It’s nice to be back! I’ve heard the first draft of the first issue and Peterson’s done a great job with it. You can listen to the promo below and find it wherever you get your podcast fix.
In the October issue, frequent Friends Journal contributor Carl Blumenthal interviews Nichole Nettleton, of New York Yearly Meeting’s Different Abled Friends and Allies (DAFA). Probably my favorite part is when Nichole tells the story of looking for support and contacting DAFA only to realize is wasn’t active anymore. Undeterred, she took matters into her own hands:
Since I saw it as a major need and I had a lot of experience with disabilities, I thought I could help by setting up weekly Zoom meetings.… We started about a year ago, and though I don’t know much about facilitating or the technology involved, I’m learning as I go. Sometimes you just have to start things when the need is there. You can’t be afraid that you don’t know enough or think you’re good enough to lead.
Carl has been working on issues of physical disabilities and mental health for decades and he’s been a friendly advocate to get us to publish more on the subject. Last year he wrote the landmark Quakers and Mental Healthcare for us. I certainly learned a lot about Quaker involvement in the field. This afternoon I interviewed Carl for our author chat YouTube series.
Speaking of FAQs that I hope will attract search engine queries for quite some time, Emily Provance has been on fire with a series she calls “answers for a small‑f friend,” in which she — well, answers a lot of questions people might have. Many of these are just as useful for us large‑F Friends and they’re all worth checking out.
This week’s is “Is there anything all Quakers have in common?” She gets around the sometimes-confoundingly diverse set of opinions among Friends by finding commonalities that “nearly all Friends” would agree with. It’s a good way to proceed.
These ensemble QuakerSpeaks are like FAQs sent out to the search engines. They’re educational to watch when they come out: I sit there imagining what I would be saying if the camera was on me. But the real benefit is months and years from now when non-Quaker who has never walked into a meetinghouse is faced with having to attend a memorial service for a beloved neighbor, or relative, or co-worker. They will naturally turn to their favorite search engine and find this video on YouTube. Six and half minutes later they’ll know what they’re getting into. Maybe they’ll stick around and click on related videos like “What to Expect in Quaker Meeting for Worship.”
I’m biased, certainly, but I think Friends do weddings and funerals particularly well. Many people first experience Friends through these service. I know I always leave knowing so much more about someone who I assumed I already knew;; I sometimes feel a pang of regret at not having taken the time to discover their other interests while they were alive.
Johanna Jackson and I speak about the problems of politeness and buried conflict in Quaker meetings in this week’s FJ author chat. We tried not to get too specific about conflicts we’ve seen in our own Quaker experiences: what matters is not necessarily individual instances (people can be jerks, this is understood) but a pattern of not reconciling and healing that many Friends and would-be Friends have observed.
How do we reshape the culture in our meetings to allow for more vulnerability and healthy emotions and how do we heal from conflicts that happened years or decades ago but still shape our meetings? Johanna’s article, Beyond Politeness, appears in the current issue of Friends Journal.
Another new podcast, this one from Irish Friends. Like the Pendle Hill podcast it was launched last week on World Quaker Day. There are at least two more podcast series in the works!